Is this true? is it normal

I don't believe in "meant to be" and "for you" concepts.

Neither of them are true. They are wishful thinking designed to comfort us. But i'll say this. There have been times in my life that things fell into place at exactly the right time. Is that a result of "the universe" or "god"? No. But it does happen that way sometimes, just like it happens the exact opposite way. There is no divine plan for any one of us. We make our own reality. If you want something, you have to go out and get it. Be satisfied that you CAN go out and make things happen because that is what's really empowering.

Too fatalistic. We do have some control over things you know!

Nah, they're just comforting platitudes. Life's a combination of trying hard and hoping things twist your way. That's it.

It's very confusing, yes if you believe in God he will guide you or some other spiritual force. However some people will be like "nah, where is the logic in that?" and they have a point.