Is this the end?

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I have been with my partner for 12 months we have been out before and we still loved eachother after 5 years,

We have only had one huge fight before and all of a sudden he started to be distant with me, he doesnt seem to want to spend time with me apart from at home and he seems bored a lot, we still have sex all the time and he tells me he loves me etc which isnt the issue. We had a row and he told me I have changed and become clingy and says im suffocating him? for the last two days? he hasnt hardly spoken to me today and I dont know what to do he has passed a few sms messages and when I called him he didnt answer and called me back about 5 mins later which didnt bother me but he never does that.
We dont go out much due to us saving and he is always going on about money and how much we have and we used to do so much stuff together and he doesnt seem to want to do it now. Is this someone getting comfy or is this that he is getting bored of me? please help I want to save this and get back to how we were but it seems that I may be getting clingy and Im not that type of person how can you tell?

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    Momma always told me one day it would happen, but she never told me when. She told me it would happen when i was much older. Wish it would've happened then.

    Is this the end?

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  • thegift
    12 years ago

    I shaked my magic 8 ball for you...yep, its the end.

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  • Simply_Abnormal
    13 years ago

    You do not know how he is actually feeling which makes it a difficult situation to handle. I reckon you should talk to him about it...tell him how you feel and he might be able to explain why he is being "off" or allow you to realise you slightly insecure and it's all just in the mind.

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  • bubbligirl
    14 years ago

    I agree with thinkpad he might just feel the same way your acting and it might turn out badly

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  • ThinkPad
    14 years ago

    I wouldn't be that cold, leave him alone and if he asks what's up, just tell him you thought he wanted some space.

    No offense but SweetAdeline's response might make him feel like saying "well fine, if you don't need me I don't need you"

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  • confusedgirl2010
    14 years ago

    Thanks, I am open to anything! If you recon that will work then Ill go for it! Thanks I hope it works!

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  • SweetAdeline
    14 years ago

    I know that you won't take my advise, but if you really want to keep him, start acting like you don't give a darn and when he asks where you are going, tell him you need your space. Within a month, he will be the one who is clingy and suffocating.

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