Is this relation to my sister weird?
I'm in my mid twenties and i don't live at home anymore, however i visit my parents a couple of times a year. My sister is 16. I have a quite close relation to her now, especially because i was somewhat 'unavailable' for her for a long time, which means i almost never played with her when she was a child, nor did i talk to her much, since i was busy being young so to say...
Well, i love my sister a lot and when we see each other we cuddle. Last time i gave her a massage as she had a tense body. After massaging her back i continued to caress and massage her head, her jaw, neck etc.
We started to chat then and i kept massaging her ears, tummy, hands etc. I even massaged her hips and upper part of her butt, since i was determined to give her a non sexual full body massage to relax her, but of course i was cautious to not get too near her private parts.
I enjoyed it a lot (i sometimes caress/massage my whole body myself so i know how good this feels) and she obviously enjoyed it as well as she even asked me next day if i can massage her again.
I didn't think that it's weird and tbh i don't care if some or even most people would think that this behavior is wrong. I know in what way i love my sister and i'm sure my sister feels the same and doesn't get my massage in a wrong way.
Anyway, only now it comes really to my consciousness that it's probably not considered normal at all by societal standards. I'm still curious though what you think about it and how many people would say that this is normal, and how many think that this is rather wrong an why...