Is this reasonable?

So my husband and I have a 7 month old son together and we've been married for a year. Before we got married my husband said he would quit smoking marijuana and be more of a family man but it hasn't happened.

It seems our house has turned into a party house rather than a home. His friend (whom he doesn't even care for most of the time) is over every single day. He's tried to have parties over here and I just can't take it. He tells my husband that I'm trying to take over his life because I want to start going to church and I want alone time with my husband. I can not stand this guy. He is so whiney and nags my husband to do things until he gives in. Is it normal for him to be such a woman about it?

Even my husband wants these things for us but for some reason he won't shrug off his pushy friend and tell him its not just me wanting this.

P.S...I know this is more of an advice thing but I'm not signed up with any other page.

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Comments ( 4 )
  • Gasmasker

    "...to be a WOMAN about it?" Angry face = on.

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  • howaminotmyself

    No offense, but your husband needs to grow some balls.

    Find other parents with small children and invite them over. Men like your husband's "friend" will probably dislike children. especially once they hit the toddler stage.

    good luck

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  • Hansberger

    It's not your friend's business! You go to church, but you're a very good person.

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  • wreckd

    :) Thanks guys. I took some of the advice on here and now the friend is only aloud over on some weekends. Haha. My husband finally got the point and now sees some truth in what I've been telling him.

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