Is this reaction normal?

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My future baby daddy, recent ex doesn't like to fight back.. I go straight psycho and he just smiles it gets me even crazier.. He would even hug me after pouring out insults.. He doesn't say a thing but asks afterwards if am calm and that not to stress the baby.. I believe he's killing me with kindness and I hate that it works.. I say I hate you like a million times he replies " I love you too "..wtf ! Iin?

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47% Normal
Based on 32 votes (15 yes)
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  • charli.m
    7 years ago | pl

    Sounds like you're the one causing trouble.

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    • cutegalsly
      7 years ago

      He's my ex for a good reason.

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      • charli.m
        7 years ago

        If you're actually having a child with him, you're going to need to grow the fuck up and at least be civil, for the sake of the child.

        Seems he got that memo, but you didn't.

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        • cutegalsly
          7 years ago

          Am trying.. He's just a pain in the butt. Like today he was on a call with another woman for minutes he was busy flirting with her the entire time as I just listen to all that shit, yet we met to talk about the baby .. See what I have to deal with..?!

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          • charli.m
            7 years ago

            So get a mediator.

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        • tittle
          7 years ago

          Damn straight.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    He's abnormally patient and you are abnormally immature for a young woman of childbearing age. What are you so angry about anyway?

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    • cutegalsly
      7 years ago

      He's a liar and a cheat that's why.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    You're immature. Grow up fast, becuase you're going to be a mom soon, and I'm sure you don't want your kid to have emotional issues because of you.

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    • cutegalsly
      7 years ago

      Maybe I am but am not the one who was busy cheating on my pregnant girlfrend.. With different girls everyday.

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      • Tealights
        7 years ago

        Welp, good for leaving him then. Find a better man.

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  • felixy
    7 years ago

    Seems like he's a pushover, and you're shoving him down the stairs.

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    • cutegalsly
      7 years ago

      Who wants back a player.. I believe he's pretending.

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  • Murun
    7 years ago

    He sounds reasonable. Just because he may not have been reasonable when in a relationship with you doesn't mean he can't be reasonable now.
    It sounds like you might still have some feelings for him?

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  • tittle
    7 years ago

    Most people aren't that calm and patient. If he wasn't a cheater, you would be really lucky to have a man like that.

    You should take a leaf out of his book. Blowing up and going psycho isn't cool for adults. You may not know this, your parents may not know this, your friends may not know this, but being able to control yourself and remaining calm and civil is a hallmark of a well-developed, mature person.

    Try and be more self-aware. *Think* about why his reaction makes you angry. Really think about it and be honest with yourself.
    You don't have to be a slave to your emotional impulses. Try and get on a deeper level than that.
    If you have a subconscious need for drama in your life, be honest with yourself about that, so you can work past it.
    We all have irrational desires and wants, but you can intercept them so they don't dictate your life and you can get the things that you rationally *do* want.

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    • cutegalsly
      7 years ago

      Thanks for your reply.. But it's quite difficult to deal with a bipolar and a narcissistic personality disorder person. I believe now that he's mentally ill.

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  • idontcaree
    7 years ago

    you shoudl get a divorce

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    • cutegalsly
      7 years ago

      He is the EX...

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