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I have a coworker who I think is really hot. I recently had sex with my girlfriend but I imagined I was fucking my coworker.
This is the first time I ever did this apparently I was very horny when I did it and my girlfriend really enjoyed herself.
I feel guilty that I wasnt thinking of her but someone else. Is this normal?
I've always disliked this idea that when you're in a relationship you're expected to find nobody else sexually attractive, as if that's even possible. I don't know if this is normal or disrespectful but I would assume it borders between the line. Probably not a good thing to continue doing, I'd imagine it would lessen your sexual attraction to your GF in general if it became a trend and that may lead to not being satisfied with your GF sexually if not already, which could lead down a shitty scenario.
this sort of thing is exactly why I can't be assed to be with a human. I love my tornado husband. He doesn't get jealous when I watch vids of other tornadoes.
Lol. Just Bc you’re in love with someone doesn’t mean that other people just magically become ugly.
Maybe. I've never done this myself so it's possible I'm ignorant on it all but I'd imagine fantasizing about sleeping with other women not only outside of your relations with your GF but DURING relations with your GF is a recipe for disaster, but then again people have a healthy sex life with roleplaying? But that's a mutual experience and based on fictional scenarios and not real people. Meh, I dunno. I just know I could see it going wrong.
Men are wired differently. There doesnt have to be any love for sex. We are just built to reproduce and wired to find the chic with the best genes.
I guess when we are dreaming we not fantasizing? Dude it normal to fantasize, hell your girlfriend might as well be fantasizing ? Do you know ? No because what we don't know won't hurt.so what ever help to make your sex life enjoyable for both keep getting it just saying!!!
Honestly this is “normal” to me, but not exactly “ok”.😆 It sounds like you have a high sex drive (and maybe you also really like your coworker?) and that’s totally fine. It’s ok to have fantasies that you enjoy, and it sounds like your girlfriend could really tell there was something different lol.☺️
If you love your girlfriend and want to keep your relationship I’d recommend focusing on her more. If things are stale, or just not quite right, it’s important to communicate.
If things AREN’T actually ok with your girlfriend then it’s not a big deal to talk to your hot coworker more, just sayin.
You should leave your girlfriend
Edit: I can't believe anyone chose this is normal because it's definitely not
What you have described is a shitty thing to do. Don't be shitty, stop doing this shitty thing.
I had just moved to Florida when hurricane Andrew hit. I went for a walk to survey the damage afterward, there was this little, yellow Volkswagon Beetle with a Shit Happens bumper sticker on the back bumper and a palm tree had fallen on top of it! I took a picture of course!
Are you asking if its normal to do this or if its normal to feel guilty?