Is this normal? what should i do?
Mr and my Bf has been together for 5 years but this May 1st, he becomes colder, he doesnt answer me on phone so I decided to visit him home but he told me he is not in a good mood and having a troubled mind so he doesnt want to talk about it, later after how many days we start communicating even though he is still cold, we are checking for each other and that is the time I asked him if I was the problem or he wants to separate from already but he said, No. I decided to slow and calm down and wait him to cool down as well for a days by not disturbing him with too much messages and calls. After how many days, I decided to call him and asked if we can fix it already and he answered me that he was having trouble with everything, gets fed up and tired of everything already,he even can't understand why is he feeling that and he also said that as well as to our relationship he was starting to get tired so we better end it already. I cried a lot of days, I even asked for some advice and they said I should break up him. But I still did what I want, I did visit him in suprise just so we can talk in person, I cried, But he said sorry to me, he tells me he doesn't even know why he is feeling like being fed up with everything, he feels lost, incompetent, useless and emphasized that he felt like to be on his own. I told him that its hard for me, and its tearing me down. After that he said sorry to me,that maybe long term relationships really go with this kind of challenges and said that he will make it up to me and work everything out but he can't promise me anything because he doesn't even understand himself. I asked him if he need space and he tells me maybe, he is not sure if that's what he want. Now, I love him.. But I dont know what to do? Please help me with some advices or thoughts. 😭😭😭😢