Is this normal that my boyfriend acts this way ?

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hi
ive had a baby 3 months ago ,but b4 then my boyfriend has become very distant, he doesn't kiss or cuddle me anymore and we havent had sex in over a month, if i try he pushes me away and says hes tired, we got engaged at christmas, but even then he has been like this, were starting to fight alot about this he doesnt understand i feel rejected, what should i do

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    I agree with lufa. Maybe you are overweight and he just does not find you attractive anymore. This sounds really immature and he sounds like a real asshole. You are his wife and he should not suddenly get bored of that just because you had a kid.

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  • lufa
    11 years ago

    Perhaps you're still overweight and it turns him off. Maybe he realized this wasn't what he wanted out of life. Having a baby and being tied down to one girl is a huge problem for some men, esp. when they aren't ready for it.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    Maybe he is tired from being a parent. Maybe he has postpartum depression. Maybe he thinks the baby is not his. Maybe he thinks you are a bad mother and so finds you unattractive. Maybe you smell like baby poop and throw up. Maybe is uncomfortable with the loss of privacy. Maybe he thinks the baby is ugly. Maybe it's because you aren't taking care of your looks as you were pre-baby. Maybe he doesn't want breast milk dripping on him. Maybe is afraid he will make another baby.

    The possibilities are endless.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    He probably doesn't want to put his dick in the hole a baby fell out of.

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  • bigguy2010
    11 years ago

    See a marriage counselor NOW... and I mean BEFORE you get married.

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  • ucipher8
    11 years ago

    how does he treat the baby?

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  • 69
    11 years ago

    you distanced yourselves before the baby was born. you must be hurt but you need to talk to him, no one else can tell you what is going on. i'm sorry i can't help

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