Is this normal that i've given up on..

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....love. I love the feeling of being in love and someone being in love with me, but it's break ups I can't handle. I've only had one relationship and it hurt so badly when he left and I never want to feel that again. I want to have a boyfriend but honostly I can't take being abandoned again. People have been abandoning me and i should be used to it but i'm not. It hurt me the most when he left. Is this normal?

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Based on 45 votes (35 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    Yeah don't fall in love cuz you might get hurt, don't breathe as well cuz the air is polluted and can make you sick, don't eat cuz food might give you diseases and cancer, don't socialize with people cuz they might hurt you, and yeah don't walk in the sun either it can give a skin cancer.

    The joy of love and the pain of a heartbreak are as essential as the things I just suggested you to avoid.

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  • beautywithapast
    11 years ago

    I got hurt really bad with a break up 5 years ago REALLY bad, I have sense grown major respect for myself... I LOVE MYSELF! I love myself so much I refuse to date other people, because I loose focus on me, and then if we break up I wasited the time and emotion. I'd rather live alone for the rest of my life then to give any of my time to trash. So I live in the moment... and love everything about life. I love flirting with guys, and being close with them. But I dont have sex, and I dont fall in love. I just like company of men thats all.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Try loving yourself first...

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  • RobForce
    12 years ago

    eh it's only 1 relationship,it always hurts for the first time, trust me.
    just cheer up and try again :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    omg.. I know that feeling but it's necessary to get over it.. i'm trying to too! .. gl

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    • Ryuhei
      13 years ago

      I think the first step for me is to get over him....wow just as i said that he called. wtf

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  • harrypotterdork22
    13 years ago

    nothing is perfect
    love is a beautiful thing
    and people are taking it for granted.
    its normal, heartbreak hurts. but...it just means u werent meant to be.

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    • anyah
      13 years ago

      yeah i agree...i've been on that situation a year ago,and a am still in the process of recovering.....

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