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My boyfriend wakes up two hours earlier than I do, to work out. Often he wants to have sex after his workout but I'm too tired so I let him do it while I lay there sort of half asleep. He pulls off my pants and uses astroglide. Is this at all normal for a couple?
if he enjoys it and you're ok with it then it's fine. As far as being normal, I don't really think there is such thing as 'normal' in a relationship as each relationship is different.
Btw I know everyone is different but still a word of warning, If you're tired in the morning and he's ok with this just for a physical release then that's fine(I wish my girl was so accommodating ) BUT make sure you still have intimate and mutually fun times together at other times. Getting a physical release is fun, but everyone needs to feel wanted. Make sure he knows you enjoy your time together and that you don't just' put up' with his needs.
It's normal because his testosterone levels are sky high as are his endorphins. It's only natural he wants to fornicate then.
Ya'll should probably have sex with you bring fully awake from time to time as well. You might enjoy it, and you openly showing that (moaning, moving around, and showing appreciation) will make the experience better tor both of you.
If that's the only sex that happens in your relationship it's in big trouble. You're allowing a pattern to become entrenched of letting him have his pleasure at your expense: up to you if you want this to go on for ever and ever and ever.
If you've made it clear you don't really want it then he's being selfish and disrespectful: if you haven't made it clear it's past time you did.
Wrong, she's a good woman.
A woman like her will keep a man because she doesn't mind keeping her man happy.
A women like you will force a man to go outside the home to get what he wants. Of course you don't think he's going to suffer and wait until you feel the urge to spread your legs. Trying to train a man like a pet doesn't work.
Doesn't sound like much fun for her and I'd be amazed if resentment didn't build up over time. She is in fact "just putting up with his needs" and he is ignoring hers.
This isn't even mutual physical release and surely sex between a longterm couple should be for MUTUAL pleasure, not just for one party?
Nup, sex to please someone else is worse than nothing. Oh sorry, of course you're seeing it from the bloke's point of view, aren't you?
I don't complain when my wife gives me head just so I can cum....although she does like giving head.
And when I have sex with her my goal is to make her cum as much as possible. I don't have sex to get my own rocks off...
To each his/her own I guess. And yet I'm looking at it from the bloke's point of view, me being a man. Not interested in thinking like a woman.