Is this normal or was it molestation?

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When I was younger my dad came into my room. He was super drunk and could barely walk. He climbed into my bed and "cuddled" me. His hand was on my boob but I don't think he even knew what he was doing because he was so drunk. I was super uncomfortable and tried to leave but his grib around me got tighter so I just laid there till he fell asleep and slept on the couch. He did that 2 or 3 times but never more than that. It made me feel uncomfortable around him for a really long time but I dont even think he even remembers. I still think about it every now and then trying to figure out what exactly it is. Is it normal or was it bad?

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  • ArvindRSingh
    6 years ago

    What happened in the morning, specifically when your dad found himself in your room?

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    • Spectacularplum34
      6 years ago

      He went back in his room. My m asked me what happened and I told her I was in the bathroom and he must've slept walked into my room. She didn't question it.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        That's sad that you couldn't tell her the truth. He sounds like an awful rabid alcoholic.

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  • xfg-48
    6 years ago

    You weren't molested.
    ~ Experience

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  • Huntey501
    6 years ago

    No it's not normal if you're dad was graving you're boob even if he was drunk he still has self control and enoph science to no its his doughter and not his f*ck toy. If he doesn't again slap him cuz that's not write at all.how old are u

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    • Spectacularplum34
      6 years ago

      I was around 8 When it happened.

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      • JonathanOo
        6 years ago

        If you were 8 then he probably wasn't "trying" to grab your boob in a malicious way. You couldn't have been that big right? Plus he was drunk. He probably used you as a coping mechanism. Kinda like a teddy bear. I'm sure he'll NEVER admit it though . It's embarrassing but you weren't raped so you're ok

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      • Huntey501
        6 years ago

        Still even worst but my dad had done the same thing to me while he was sober

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        • Spectacularplum34
          6 years ago

          I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope everything is ok now.

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  • amg1028
    6 years ago

    if you were 8, no boobs yet, i would think. it reminds me of a papa bear, protecting his young.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Yeah, rabid alcoholics tend to mess up their kids.

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    • Pseodonihm
      6 years ago

      you have know idea.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Well, I probably don't know personally, because neither of my parents ever abused substances, thank God! However, I have known plenty of adult children of alcoholics who have suffered so much, because of their parents.

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        • Pseodonihm
          6 years ago

          I'm one of them.

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          • RoseIsabella
            6 years ago

            I'm so sorry to hear that. My heart goes out to you!

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  • justlooking1976
    6 years ago

    Obsessive much? Get over it!

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