Is this normal? or a problem?

Maybe you have low self-esteem, and fear that you cannot get any other guy. I think it might be time for you to experience other guys if you are too worried or unhappy.

Maybe you just fear being alone, so you stay with any ol asshat that will take you.

Double question, I guess. As much as I'd like to tell you to pack your shit and go find a guy that will treat you with even the tiniest bit of respect, I guess what you have works for you, because you are still with him.
As for his constant search for satisfaction, I think that's all on him. He sounds like he has Satyriasis. Probably not a damn thing you can do to change him or repair him. As much as I'm anti-therapy in most cases, perhaps in his case it might help.
Good luck, but I think you are cheating yourself out of a better relationship by staying with this guy.

I can't understand why you're with someone that treats you this way, you seem ok with the fact that he goes behind your back and sleeps with other women. He isn't going to change so just be aware that one day he may leave you for another woman or have a whole other relationship outside of your own. Doesn't it hurt being with someone who will never be able to be faithful to you

I find wild fake vaginas all the time in the woods by my home.

It's not a matter that he jacks to porn. every guy will do that. The relationship between a man and his own penis is something well established well before you came along.

However, I'll agree with the others when I see he's treating you like a concubine. you're worth more than that and should not accept such treatment. start dating other guys, as friends as first, or whatever, but don't anticipate another relationship until it finds you.

It's normal women love dating asshole men who treat them like crap, so yeah.

The problem is him not you darling do not worry for people like him is why people like me exist to make your life more valuable than that it is already one oportunity and prove him wrong.

Honestly, if it were me, I would have left him the first time I discovered about the cheating. He doesn't deserve you. He doesn't care about you. He rather cheat on you than remain faithful. He would rather watch porn and have relations with a fleshlight than devote his sexual desires towards you. His heart is in a completely different place far from where yours is. He is treating you like crap, yet you stay.

He's an asshole. Dump him. Of course, him being an asshole doesn't make it easy, but it still needs to be done. The longer you stay with him, the less self-respect you'll have, which will make it easier to justify staying.

As far as the porn, masturbation, and fake vagina, those things are normal. They can cause problems in a relationship, but it's a fact of life that guys do them. I wouldn't consider that an issue unless you're having problems in the bedroom.

In this case, he's just a sex addict or something, so the less sex you have with him, the better!

he's a ass!!! break it off girl

He sounds like a rabid sex addict! But, what he is or isn't is not the issue here. The issue is why the hell are you still with this walking, talking, fucking piece of human garbage?

Don't be afraid to be alone. It's better to be alone than in bad company, believe me! My philosophy is somewhere along the line of that old cliché, "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me". The first time someone lies to or cheats on you should be the last.

It's all fine and good if you wanna forgive someone who does you wrong, but forgiveness does not need to mean reconciliation unless you're God of course. Judging by the hell you're going through it's safe to assume you're not God so just dump this cheater.

Why are you with someone who cheated on you not just once but several times? And you know you have problems? Maybe you need to face them :(

The cheating is the problem.

The masturbation and use of a sex toy isn't.

Your perspective seems skewed; you're concerning yourself with the wrong thing.

Why is it that you stay even after betrayal?