Is this normal? i want to be skinny, but i'm curvy

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I'll be honest here, I get a lot of attention for being particularily curvy(size D breasts, a not-so-flat bum) and I take good care of my self so I have a pretty small tummy and my legs are pretty good. But I'm scared to have sex(this is going to sound silly) because when I lay down or sit down, I'm kinda chubby looking and I'm afraid that guys won't like me anymore when I'm not standing looking perfect. I like myself, I truly do, but honestly I don't want to be a total turn off. I want to look great when I'm laying down, like how skinny girls do, but I really don't want to lose my curves. Please don't think I only care about looks(because I really don't, especially with guys) It's just that I am a bit insecure. Media has kinda caused me to feel that I'm not good enough, and I need to be perfect. I don't want to be like that though. If guys are at least a little bit okay with looking like this, I would like to know. Is thisokay?

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  • a7xa7x
    13 years ago

    Trust me having a little fat onnyour body is way better looking than girls that look like twigs

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  • Hard_Candy
    13 years ago

    Guys are very visual so if a guy is dating you in the 1st place its a given that he's attracted to you. Guys cannot fake attraction. Many guys love curvy women. Big booties are the thing today, ever heard of Kim Kardashian. Ever heard of that curvy red head from Man Men who everybody loves, she's a size 14 at least.

    You have nothing to be insecure about. Confidence is very sexy so you need to work on loving yourself just as you are.

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    • Legoman3075
      11 years ago

      Men can in fact fake attraction, and she does have reason to be insecure, as men can be very picky about women's appearances. Granted, many men find curves attractive, there is a thin white line between sexy curves and fat. As long as she stays in good health, and plays the cards right, she won't have to be insecure, but there s always the chance of meeting a guy that she likes but he doesn't share a mutual fondness. In basic, don't just think that it will all work out, and that all men are the same.

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  • InsertBlankHere
    12 years ago

    Like some others have said: some people like curves. I know I do.
    If I can see your ribs (and you're not arching your back or suck it in or whatever), it's a bit of a turn-off.

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  • Crayshack
    13 years ago

    You sound perfect. There are too many women in this world who are too skinny.

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  • SandsOfTheMind
    13 years ago

    Nobody is satisfied with their looks. And having an hour-glass figure is sexy. (My opinion)

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  • roxco
    13 years ago

    Girls are supposed to have curves that's what men like. I feel sorry for those girls who have the body shape of a man, which is flat.

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  • Rachel888
    13 years ago

    Trust me, guys would rather have a curvy and sexy woman. Guys aren't really attracted to stick sized women with no breasts or butts. Stay how you are. Guys want something soft to squeeze, not a boney little skeleton.

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    • Grey-Brit
      12 years ago

      Actually, guys are attracted to skinny girls. Ill let you women in on a little secret - theres a general ratio of pro's and cons. For instance, if you are slim with a fantastic arse then you can get away with small breasts. If you have large breasts then you can have a bit of a belly and its all good. The only body shape that is an absolute turn off is when the stomach sticks out as far or further than the breasts.
      There is a lot more to this but you get the general idea. Oh, and this doesnt just apply to looks, you could be as plain as they come but if your fun to be around and share similar interests you can seem like a model through the rose tinted glasses of the guy.

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  • poolmansk8
    6 years ago

    I love tiny tits, wife was 32AA when I met her I now love her big 34F breasts.

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  • theytookthisone
    12 years ago

    lol don't feel so bad, sounds like your body is attractive anyways. I'm skinny, yet when i sit down it looks like I have some chubbies on me. Everyone has some sort of body insecurities, but a lot of times other people aren't going to notice it. Whenever I look at other women, I don't see their flaws..I mostly see the good/attractiveness of them. And I'm sure most guys see the same thing too.

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  • Ms.Caffinated
    13 years ago

    YAY FOR CURVY WOMEN!! lol I was really insecure about that too, until i got a full sized mirror and -Don't judge, i did it for my self esteem! lmao- only wearing my undies and bra, I posed for myself, Arching my back, seeing how i look. THAT helped! You should try it! imagine your a man looking at your body. Made me feel sexy ~^_^~ lol

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  • MercedesBenz
    13 years ago

    Curves are hot! I think that the Kardashian sisters are very sexy, and they are all curvy women (cellulite and all!). Although some people really hate them, we have to admit that they have made an impact on the views of attractiveness in the US. Not all women have to be Gwenyth or Angelina thin to be a sex symbol anymore. I think the Kardashian sisters have definitely helped with this view and put curvier women in the public entertainment eye.

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  • Glambamx3
    13 years ago

    Everybody is never satisfied with their bodies. I'm sure guys love the way you look so just rock it!

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  • hannahj03
    13 years ago

    I agree with boredguy. I enjoy women with curves and as long as you'd be willing to accept what I look like when I sit down and look a little chubbier(just like everyone else) then I'd be absolutely okay with your looks, whether they be sitting, laying, or kneeling.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    tip: all women look nice in doggie style!

    Guys have different tastes, not everyone like the same. In your case, guys really like boobs i don't think you will have any problem at bed at all :)

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