Is this normal i shoukd be feeling like this

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could anyone plese tell me if this is normal to feel this way. i am 21 years old i have sufferd sexually abuse from the age off 4 till i was 14 so from that age till just before i turned 21 i was feeling ok yeah done abit off self harm started drinking taking drugs but dont anymore. but now at 21 i feel like everything is just hitting me can that happen like 7 till 8 years down the line i dont sleep at nites as ya can see i am on my compter i suffer from panic attacks everywhere i go i wet the bed most nights. i am ashamed off what has happened i will not go out and meet anyone as in boyfriend ways my mum and dad cant give me the help i need cause my dad lives in scotland and i dont talk to my mum i left home shortly after i told her about the rapes and sexually abuse by my uncle so ever since i have faced up to this on my own can someone please help i no its a short story but i am only trying to be basic but is all this normal to feel ashamed ascared to go anywhere meeting boyfriends wetting the bed not sleeping having loads off flasbacks

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  • Listen
    14 years ago

    It's not your fault this happened, and also don't blame yourself for the drugs. Make some good friends and take it easy.

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  • mprocida
    13 years ago

    Get hypnotized, it helped me with my problems like this

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  • UrbanArtLover
    14 years ago

    naaw u poor baby! :(

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  • laceandwhatnot
    14 years ago

    You have been hurt and nothing of which you are feeling and what is happening to you is your fault. When traumatizing things like this happen to people, it is often very necessary to get outside help. Doctor help and/or psychological help. You don't need to feel bad about this. You need to speak to someone you can trust. Do not feel alone. You are not alone. This happens much more than it should and there are people ready to help you out there. Unfortunately because most victims of sexual abuse- or any abuse for that matter keeps their story to themselves, the help they need cannot look for these victims. The victims must seek out the help. Do not give up, help is out there. Good luck to you.

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    • butterlfy
      14 years ago

      thank u i will learn to trust people some day

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  • billnjoel
    14 years ago

    lol abuse

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