Is this normal how long should i wait

I have been trying to conceive for about 7 months now I am on prenatal and have seen a specialist. I have tried everything and still no luck. The only thing is my husband hasn't been tested and I think he may be the problem. How ever I was on birth control for years. I am stressing myself out and I know that's not good to conceive. I have read every article and track every period as well as my most fertile days. Is their anything else I can do. I'm stressing out we want a baby

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Based on 18 votes (12 yes)
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  • PF_Saiyan

    I've had a friend that had the same problem. They wanted a baby so bad, I'm pretty sure they kept trying for a year. They ended up adopting a baby, and then 6 months later she got pregnant... And a year later, she got pregnant again. A lot of it has to do with stress levels. That includes things like stress from work, family, working out, etc. Just take it easy.

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  • mysistersshadow

    So... why not have your husband tested?

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  • Jujudog

    I'll sell you one for 5K but that one's a real crier. If you want a quieter one it will be 10K

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    • 90schild

      Very appealing what's the catch lol jk

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      • Jujudog

        Sorry for being flippant, aww you seem like you really want a child. And you will not be disappointed when you get there.
        I see you are 20 so that's good, you have time. Less stress, you have time.
        7 months is not a long time, everything could be normal and you could conceive any month. It could just be down to target practice.
        But still you need to get all the elements of the equation. Finding out if your husband's boys can swim is the next logical step. Is he open to this? Your doctors will help with this process whatever the results. You still have options if it turns out he's shooting blanks.
        And you know, I always believe the harder you try to force nature, the harder it pushes back. If sex is all and only about having a baby, ("honey, quick it's time to go again") maybe that's not the right approach. More focus on the sex and pleasure, less on what day of the month it is. Nature is full of surprises, don't force it.
        Failing all that, there's always the milkman.
        Best of luck

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  • RoseIsabella

    Are you in your forties by any chance?

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    • 90schild

      I'm 20

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      • RoseIsabella

        Hmm... I dunno, but I'm sure stressing about it won't help. I'm sorry you're having this issue, I wish I had something more helpful to say.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    conseeving can be tricky especially if you are full of stress. Try to relax and just let it happen.

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  • ATEBEFORESEVEN

    Whats wrong with his cock and nuts ?

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  • Couman

    I'm hardly an expert, but 7 months doesn't sound like a real long time. Still, I guess there's no harm in running some tests.

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