Is this normal for him

Me and my bf never had sex we been dating for 2 months now , when he is laying on me he kisses my face after while he gets up and he says he can't move I asked why he says his penis is hard ... he's 30 I'm 19.How??

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  • stopdeletingmyaccountsbitch

    Lmfao! is 11 your lucky number or something, the bf is always 11 years 'your senior' in all these phony ass stories. maybe he is doing too much meth / heroin / crack or whatever bullshit you have him on in this edition of your lame fantasy.

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  • guest12345

    I'm going to go out on a limb and suppose this is a real question. I hope you aren't wasting my time. I'm at least happy that you are legally an adult so if you two did have sex it wouldn't be illegal. So its good he's not taking advantage of your age in that regard. However, I would be cautious of his intentions since he's 11 years older than you. Men like younger women but often we know it won't be a lasting relationship. People your age don't know what they want and are exploring the world of dating to find out what they want eventually in someone they would later like to marry.

    Ok so with that said lets answer your question. First off, 2 months isn't a requirement that sex has to take place. There is no amount of set time. Second, ok this is the impression im getting based off the way you phrased the dialogue between him and you. You state it: "after while he gets up and he says he can't move I asked why he says his penis is hard." This is the part I don't understand. Oh wait I get it. You meant "he gets up" as in he gets an erection and says he can't move. Well in that case, I believe he is turned on but he's enjoying the feeling of laying on top of you. When Im laying on top I find it arousing the way it feels when we are pressed together.

    I mean you can feel each other even through clothes depending how thick the material is. Anyways, he's probably really enjoying that.I tell her I cant move too. I can move but i'm enjoying it. SO I don't want to move so I jokingly say I cant move because I don't want to Im enjoying the moment and the feeling.

    I think your follow up question is why he won't have sex with you. Ask him. He may have a legitimate fear and it won't help hime to make fun. Tell him you won't judge. However, be careful this age difference is sending red flags that sometime is off. I couldn't tell you what his intentions unless I met him. Im in his age group. Im at the point in my life where I want a stable relationship. Ive dated younger women and because of that experience. My policy is date someone not more than 3 years younger or older. However, my folks are 6 years apart but my experience my policy. I find younger women to not know what they want, naive, stupid, and immature. My age group starts looking for someone they can settle down with. People like this guy's age scream I want to stay young forever. However, and this is why its hard to know for certain. He may legitimately like younger women. He may feel he wants a long term relationship with you. Oh my suggestion is to see how often he speaks of a future with you and if he just does it only when you're fooling around. When he speaks to you or about the relationship does he use "future tense" when speaking about your two's relationship. For example, Oh in a couple of months there is this [insert name of event here] I want us to go to together. Really anything where he places the two of you in a scenario where you are doing something together that's in the near future couple days, weeks, or months or months to years. Oh and again him saying these things has to be mostly outside the bedroom like a teeter totter or a balance 60/40%, 70/30% etc.

    I hope this helps and any more question just message or post here. Well Im not sure if I'm able to send a message on here or if I can only post. So follow up post I'll be able to read and response. Anyways, have a great day.

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  • debil

    hes too old for you hes a sexual deviant date women instead

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