Is this normal for her?

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I told my friend I liked her, I'm a girl aswell, and it has been almost a year of her not speaking to me now. When she was younger she did get teased about how people thought she was gay so it would be unlikely for her to just come out and say it, but if you read my other one about sucking eachothers fingers and she also once said to me "I would go out with you, if you were a guy" then you would maybe see why I'm confused about wether she is just afraid of saying she likes me or if she doesn't like me at all. I mean is it normal for someone to try and avoid you and be scared to tell you they like you? Because me and my other friends are convinced she is gay, but she refuses to let anyone in so I don't know?

Can you comment wether she could be acting like this because she likes me please?

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Based on 20 votes (14 yes)
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  • SometimesNaive
    9 years ago

    If it's been a year of no communication i would move on. You cant wait forever on someone who may or may not have feelings for you

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  • CoalFlameIce
    9 years ago

    She sounds like she is just scared. You might want to have a talk with her about acceptance and all that biz. Homosexuals are fine!

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  • daisydukes
    9 years ago

    I feel she likes you she just can't face her feelings. She cant be around you because she's probably afraid of her actions. She cant talk to you because she cant put her feelings into words. May I ask how old she is? She may just not understand her feelings. If you all are friends try putting your feelings aside and come to her as a friend and ask about her behavior. Being gay isnt the end of the world.

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    • Hermionegranger
      9 years ago

      She's 17

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    "I would go out with you, if you were a guy" Where is there any ambiguity in that statement? Do you not understand what she was telling you, or do you just not care?
    Take your gay ass somewhere else honey, she's obviously not at all interested in it.

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  • NiniCool
    9 years ago

    I think she doesn't like you this way. u_u

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you spooked her.

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