Is this normal for a girl to do such stuff or not ?

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Hello, well i am in love with a girl for like 13 to 14 months but whenever i tell about the way i feel about her she says that she just dont feel the same way about me and neither is she intrested in anyone else. Well but there is other problem as well that she doesn't want to breakup with me as a friend also and we almost talk for hours and have fun daily. She literally have fun spending time with me than with anyone else and she is like the best for me and i am like the only guy who she use to talk without being bored for like more than 4 hours a day among all but i dont know why she just dont want to get in relationship with me..
Girls i need some explainations that would any of you do same if you were like her or not ?
Guys i need some explainations from you as well..
and i also wanna know that what should I do in future - leave her or just be her best guy..
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  • roxylinds
    13 years ago

    Dude. She's obviously not attracted to you. Simple as that.

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  • DanB
    13 years ago

    Eh. Sometimes girls just wanna be friends. So just enjoy being friends if she wants more she'll letcha know.

    And always reread what your about to post. Your sentences need revising lol.

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  • Gabriell
    13 years ago

    You are probaply NOT HANDSOME ENOUGH FOR HER!

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  • cess
    13 years ago

    I'm just guessing and i don't want to be mean, but maybe you're ugly as hell. Your personality is enough for being friends but if you want someone to kiss or even hug you, you shouldn't be very ugly. (AGAIN! just guessing --> i'm in a that kind of situation)

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  • Angryblackguy
    13 years ago

    OMG! The friend zone.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Welcome to the modern world where women can be friends with men without the promise of sex or a relationship.

    Don't be such a sleaze-ball.

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  • emiloola:)
    13 years ago

    Yea don't be a creep but if u already get to spend this much time with her be happy!

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime
    13 years ago

    wow.... okay she just wants to be friends with you. maybe you need to stop obsessing over her and stop being so creepy and clingy. i dont see this as being an issue. i just hope you arent the type of guy who would stalk this chick and try to make her fall in love with you and when she eventually finds another guy who she wants to be with, you kill the guy and end up locking her away in your basement but you wont rape her because you respect her that much that you want her to love you but you will never ever let her out of your basement. please dont be that kind of guy and if you are already having those kinds of thoughts, please go and seek some professional help right now.

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  • juiicaliicious
    13 years ago

    I say u go for it & continue to be her friend just give her time & respect her wishes!*

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  • weinereater
    12 years ago

    Almost there man, just hang out in the friendzone and keep spending time with her, it works almost everytime if you treat her good.

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    12 years ago

    Continue doing what you're doing & be there for her.
    That's exactly how my boyfriend & I got together & he was so sweet and fun to talk to I just fell for him, nothing else mattered.
    It's been almost a year and a half now :)

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  • shogun
    13 years ago

    Find someone else to play with your a child. When your a man you'll figure it out for yourself. Fool

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  • Elorria
    13 years ago

    She doesnt like you and probably wont in the near future. Im a girl and theres a guy just like you in my situation. Your probably not physically attractive enough =/

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Just because she always hangs out with you and has fun doesn't mean she will have feelings for you.

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  • kAyrulz
    13 years ago

    i really appreciate all comments .. thnx!!

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