Is this immature behaviour from a person?

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This couple I heard of were arguing and one of them said no sex and that they were holding any sex from them. The person went as far as dressing in clothing that they knew would turn the other person on and said "I have only dressed like this so you can see what you can't have." I get that everyone has the right to say yes or no to sex but what I am questioning is the second part.

Yes, that is immature no matter what the person is upset about. 2
It depends on what they have argued about before hand. 1
No, it is not immature. It is funny. 1
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  • wigz
    6 years ago

    Everbody has their give and take, for some sex is what they give and they expect something besides sex in return because they just don't value sex the same as their partner or their partner simply can't satisfty them that way. The whole 'sex as a bargaining chip' only works if there's an imbalance therre....one valuing sex more than the other/one getting more out of it. It's not inherently wrong, one simply values it differrntly than the other. Sex isn't necrssarily some sacred thing that's more important than anything else, that is up to the individual. If it's wrong to exploit that then it's wrong to do the same with any other thing. It's also wrong to just assume your partner is automatically equally satisfied by the sex as you are. It very often is a one-sided thing and there is little consideration on that factor.... a little bit of acknowledgement and some small favors thrown their way would do wonders but that rarely happens. The one 'withholding sex' is always the villain.

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago

    it's all immature.
    as you said you always have the right to say no but it's a bad idea for a relationship for someone to do this.

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