Is this high sex drive?
Do you think that if a person has sex 4 - 5 times a week, he or she has high sex drive?
| yes (I'm female) | 3 | |
| no (I'm female) | 2 | |
| yes (I'm male) | 2 | |
| no (I'm male) | 10 |
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BHolt
Ahh, I should have used a more vague term. I meant sexual intercourse (of course), blowjobs, cunnilingus, handjobs for both, etc. Basically, interaction that results in orgasms. By 2-3 "times" a day, I mean three interactions. That could be 3 of any of the interactions listed above; or 3 of one type, either in a row, or spread throughout the day.
However, for clarity, if and when I decide to enter into a serious relationship, it would be with a woman that I know has a sex drive that can keep up with mine..
There are men with lower sex drives than me, and if you (I'm assuming you're female, sorry if wrong) have a lower sex drive than what I do, I can assure you, there are guys out there that will be a good match. Just remember to try before you buy!
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In fact, I am a male, 36 years old and I created this poll because I consider it not enough to have sex less often than every day. My ideal frequency is the same as you stated, i.e. I need at least two orgasms each day so I fully understand you in this matter. I created this poll because I do NOT understand how some people say "I want to have sex three or four times a week and I have a huge libido"...-this sounds funny to me because I see it as poor frequency, not high sex drive.
I also see the issue of "having sex" similarly as you, because I consider all non-coital activities (oral and manual sex) as orgasmic activities and I see them as "sex", not "only foreplay" as many people unfortunately do.
Until I was about 30 years old, it was impossible for me to find a woman who would have the same level of sexual desire or attitude to sex as me and each of my previous relationships was marked and damaged by the discrepancy in our sex drive, so I was constantly sexually frustrated. The only woman who is sexually compatible with me is my current girlfriend who has the same level of sexual desire, so we have sex twice a day every day and both of us see it as ideal situation.
When you assumed that I am a low libido female, it was probably because you thought that I consider 5 times a week as high frequency or high sex drive, which as I have just explained is not the case, in fact it would not be enough for me and I am just happy that the last five years of my life are free of sexual frustration because me and my current partner have similar levels of sexual desire which means having sex (coital and non-coital) with orgasms on a daily basis.
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BHolt
Thanks for the info. I am 30 years old myself. Good to hear that you're both getting your needs fulfilled. And I get what you mean about others saying that "3-4 a week is a huge libido". I never understood that either..
You said up until 30 you had issues with finding women with equally high sex drives; as you may already know, women reach their sexual peak in their 30s. So if you always go for women your own age (including current gf), that is why it is only now you have found one. Have fun!
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BHolt
If I had a gf/wife, I would be having sex with her 2-3 times a DAY. But I'm a guy. For women, this may be high, but not for me.
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PapzBSlim
I am male and said no. Sometimes sex happens twice or three times in one night. From that point, you would abstain from having sex the rest of the week?
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