Is this girl's reaction normal?

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There is a girl who I have been talking to online for some time now. She promised me that she was open minded and that I could talk to her about anything. She gave me her number, she wanted to be with me, and she even wanted to come here and live with me. When I was talking about me personally enjoying anal play, within a split second, she blocks me. Do I have problems or does she have problems? I guess it's not meant for us be together.

She should have not done that. She should have accepted who you are. 9
She should have blocked you. Anal play is wrong. 6
She should have told you to stop talking about it. 24
Women are supposed to listen to men and obey. 3
She is a hypocrite, judgmental person, and you deserve better. 19
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  • dickwashington
    10 years ago | pl

    did you talk sex stuff like that before? if you came out of nowhere just bringing up your love of anal play i would be creeped out completely breaking contact with you though no way she deffinetly over reacted

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    • BIgEB
      10 years ago

      "Anal play" as the writer put it...is certainly not part of a normal relationship subject, though I don't necessarily have a problem with the writer bringing up the subject...At the same time...her being "open minded", while perhaps not being totally honest, usually does not involve such a subject, and perhaps the writer should have expected such...As he mentioned, perhaps it simply was not meant to be...

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    • [email protected]
      10 years ago

      I have been diagnosed with asperger's actually. I have no intention to creep anyone out, ever. It's always hard for me to make friends or even keep a girlfriend. I had no intentions for her to interpret my selfish ritual the wrong way. :(

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  • biaj
    10 years ago

    Hilarious bt she shouldn't have lied and said she was open minded if she wasnt, you dodged a bullet

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    What Dickwashington said, but: At least you know that you two aren't meant to happen. To me, my kinks are important so I bring them up asap and you should not hide this either- But sometimes (especially for men) you gotta play smooth and sense the situation first before throwing your kinks out.

    To me, you are NOT strange and there's FAR "worse" kinks out there.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      You are probably one of those girls that will do most things and cry if you don't get to do them.

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  • Grapist
    10 years ago

    Sounds like has asperger's or maybe parkinson's

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  • Montman56
    9 years ago

    She is very unfair. First she tells you you can talk about anything with no worries. Then when you do, she blocks you without any explanation. She is being unfair!

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    If it made her uncomfortable, she should have told you to stop. It's her fault for saying that she would talk about "anything". Anything means ANYTHING.

    On the other hand, that's not a topic I would try to just jump into if we hadn't been talking about sex before. Maybe ease into it.

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    • jeebley
      10 years ago

      Nice choice of words...

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  • Tommythecat.
    10 years ago

    Hahahaha omg so funny and stuff.

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