Is this girl playing me ?

I suggest you watch a few episodes of Catfish.

"we fell in love after 3 months of meeting"

But if I understand your post correctly, you haven't met; you've "met" in the sense that you've talked on the phone. If some Indian guy calls you out of the blue and says he's going to help you fix your computer, would you say you'd met the scammer?

Scientists estimate that at least half of face-to-face communication is non-verbal. So no matter how long you talk on the phone to this person, you're only half communicating.

Maybe all your beliefs about the person the woman is are totally correct because you're incredibly intuitive and insightful and she's extraordinarily open and honest, but it's also possible she's been lying to you about absolutely everything right from the start because she lives in a fantasy world.

As for you being in love with the woman, sorry, but that's nonsense. What you're in love with is an imaginary version of her that you've built up in your mind based on what she's told you about herself and what she's allowed you to believe about her.

I have no idea what she's getting out of this arrangement, but if you were truly important to her she'd be willing to meet you for real.

She could be catfishing you give her An ultimatum. Either she meets you, or you leave her and that will show how committed she is to the relationship

It's probably some weird guy, with a high voice, living in his grandmother's basement, someone in prison and has an illegal cell phone, or is like 98 years old. Go to their town, which they probably don't live in, hunt "her" down and go meet her.

It sounds like she is just using you and doesn't respect you.

Have you done a video chat with her? I would do a video chat. She could just be really insecure with her body.

I would recommend video chatting with her, and tell her she looks beautiful. Then, after say two weeks of doing that, tell her how much you want to meet her via video chat.

7 months is a long time. It sounds to me like she's really insecure. I don't think she's playing you, simply because of the amount of time you take in her life, but she's being really wimpy if she doesn't want to meet after 7 months. So, you can tell her a stranger on the internet called her a wimp for not wanting to meet up with you after 7 months.

Have ya'll skyped? I think ya'll should talk on Skype. Suggest a video call, and when she puts you off just ghost her catfishy ass! For real, if she gives you even the slightest hard time about a video call then dump her like a big, brown, steaming load of poo!

You can also just ghost her. Tell her you're really busy, even if you're not, because she probably isn't what she claims to be. She's probably just a lonely weirdo trying to get the attention she craves. Forget about her crazy, manipulative ass.

Look for a real person in real life.

I've been in the same situation with a friend who lives 2 hours away and I acted like her. I didn't wanna ruin what we have and all that. We'd met though, many times, in person. 2 hours isn't that much. This also helped him be more patient. We are dating now.

I've also actually been in touch with a guy who like this girl of yours spent a lot of time talking to me but too scared to meet me irl. Finally we met ONCE, he was still insecure after that and too scared to meet me again but kept talking to me all the time. Eventually I gave up on him. Not worth it. I was patient with him for far over a year. Nothing helped.

You could just decide to take things slow, start out just meeting to see how you get along in person. If she can't even get herself to do that... Even if she's not playing she's probably too insecure and immature to waste anymore time on.

It sounds mean to give up on someone for being insecure but insecurity is a horrible and toxic trait and ruins relationships often. You can be insecure to a degree without it being toxic but being so insecure you act like she does then it's obviously a problem. She could keep telling you she's gonna meet you in person "soon" for years, not to be mean but because she can't do it. Meanwhile you're wasting your time. Insecure people also tend to to be overly jealous, sometimes even controlling, in a relationship and unhealthily clingy because they're terrified you're gonna leave them constantly. They might even dump you out of nowhere if they fear you're gonna dump them first.

Also you can hardly love someone you've talked on the phone with for half a year. C'mon, how old are you?

Playing you like a fiddle, skip skoodly diddle.

Hmmmm. Very hard to tell. Most players wouldn't contact you that much but I've been wrong before. If I were you I would just bother her more and more about meeting irl and that's how you'll find out.

She is not having sex with you because you are too sweet