Is this feeling normal? i'm very confused

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My friend who was born female and is now identifying herself as a male for now and says that if she loves the change she'll then officially become transgender except she's made me question my sexuality (I assume and know I'm attracted to members of the opposite sex) but not the same sex. It's hard for me to take in because I really look up to this person as if they're a celebrity and have always felt strongly about them (she's made me question my sexuality in that way) but now that she's becoming a man I have mixed feelings such as thinking bizarre situations like dating him and such which is really confusing but she's currently dating someone and they've been dating for years (and are supposedly getting married) what am I supposed to do? Am I bi? And why are my thoughts this way?

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  • BeamDiamond
    7 years ago

    As someone who is not phased by the sexual orientations of others much, I believe this person is going through some experience where they don't know what's out there and possible. People make these decisions and don't know what they are getting themselves into... As for liking her, I would say you like the traits of what she has instilled in her. I wouldn't say you particular like her and can't find anybody better. If she was meant to change in that aspect of where she is going against your desires, she's not the one for you and is not magnetizing herself to your needs and wants.

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  • yingvsyang
    7 years ago

    You are still hetero you just cant deal with your friend turning male after that much time.You are just atracted to her new male body but dont worry its only phase.And if he dosent like you like that its ok you can stay friends.And you feeling this way only means that you are an open minded person .Stay true to yourself and try to deal with this as calm as you can ,you will feel much more positive about this situation in a long run.

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  • kasaikitsune12
    7 years ago

    weirdo

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Shes confused most likely. I dont know why people do this.

    Im happy being my own gender thank you.

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