Is this confusing or is it just me?

I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months..
He's a kind gentleman and very lovely..
I'm not sure what we are, but we do see each other a lot on weekends.. He works in another city so he would only be home on the weekends.. He always keep in contact with me while he's away working to make plans for the weekend together..

Last weekend, we were supposed to meet but he canceled on me twice at the last minute because he had to work.. Im not sure if i believe that, but i didnt say much.. Who works 7 days a week?
This weekend, he asked to go out.. but also canceled on me again.. Did not apologize, instead he asked me to join him to stay at this 7 star hotel next wekend..

Am I supposed to be happy about that? cause I'm not really.
Its been 3 days now since he asked me about next weekend. I havent said a word about it..
I dont know what to tell him or what to say..

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  • skyhuh24

    If he really likes you , I wouldn't think he would call off on your weekend plans. If you are the type who gets offended by last minute call-offs, I would probably dump him because it's just going to mean he does that kind of thing on a regular basis. People usually don't change.

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  • .....shit in a hat.......

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  • BlondeSunshine

    Yep sounds like he's married. Drop him you deserve better!

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  • glitter_goddess_d

    lily268: Well, I've been to his place a few times.. he seems very single.. no signs of him being married or anything.. Also, funny thing is i guess i never thought of it as a long distance relationship..
    Eva_Braun88: oh trust me, i've thought of that a couple of times.. lol

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  • dragona

    Like Lily said, he could be married

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  • Tell him to go shit in a hat.

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  • lily268

    Have you considered the idea that he might be married? Well if your sure he's not it might work out but its going to difficult to have a long distance relationship.

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