Is this alright...?

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I'm about 18 , a black female, for the longest time, I have always, always had a preference for white guys (only dated whites, really. Don't turn this into a race discussion, please.) I'm an independent woman, very sure of myself, but for some reason, I'm into really hard racial play and bdsm, (at the moment, I'm actually dating a Dutch guy) and we do a lot of role playing, which mainly involves uniforms, ropes, and a gag. I like to be treated like crap, and sometimes, I like to do historical role play with him, along with verbal crudeness, physical mild pain, and humiliation (I'm a sub l, and he's the Dom) but in general, I sort of enjoy being bottom, and imagining I'm in some sort of old era with him, and he takes advantage me and we like to use slave/master role (please don't reprimand me; both my parents are from Senegal) and in general, I enjoy doing racial role play and bdsm with generally white guys, and fantasizing about it.

My question is: is it normal I enjoy this stuff, and am I alone? I don't anyone to make me feel bad
Not necessarily is it normal, but more 'would you do the same,' or 'am I alone?' sort of thing.

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  • flyingnostalgia
    9 years ago

    get help

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  • blackgingerguy
    9 years ago

    Yea it's pretty normal to role-play and what not.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    What you stated is actually quite normal. There's nothing for you to be ashamed about. :)

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  • Pika-girl
    9 years ago

    It doesn't matter race. We're all human, aren't we. And we all have different preferences, too. So... it's normal.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I personally think that it's totally normal to be into just white guys as there are white chicks are only into black dudes, however I don't think it's normal to do the race play BDSM about slavery.

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    • GradualRocket
      9 years ago

      While I do agree, you must've read it wrong. It's a slave/master play, rather than slavery. Sorry if I misworded!

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  • kelili
    9 years ago

    Yes, it is normal to have fantasies and to role-play. Black, whites or yellow! I have done things too ;) , bad things people would say. As long as both partners agree to this I don't see the problem.

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