Is this agreement from my gf and i normal ?

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Ok to start I must say that my girlfriend has been open about being bi for our whole relationship. I am also bi but have just recently told her.

So after telling her that She has asked me to make out with a guy infront of her so she can watch (if we can find anone ) and I also asked her to do the sam( Yes I do like the idea of watching that ). we dont want to have sex with others or anything like that we just want to watch each other make out with someone of our there own gender.
Is it normal ? should I take her up on it ? (we are still debating it)

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Based on 81 votes (42 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Say bye bye to the bi issue. The issue here I think is where are you 2 at with having an exclusive relationship - you know - where you are committed to one another to the exclusion of others?

    Being attracted to the opposite sex, same sex, or both is irrelevant. Having the capacity for sex with others whatever your orientation glosses over the issue of your commitment to be exclusively for each other.

    Either you are committed or you are not. If you or her are, then there will be hurt feelings over what amounts to infidelity.

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  • fulmater
    13 years ago

    I don't agree with bi. Your straight or gay get off the fence and figure out who you are and what you stand for. Personally I am straight but have no issues with people who choose alternative life styles. Sounds like if your willing to make out with some guy in front of your girlfriend you should just simply step out of the closet.

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  • Lady.Pam
    14 years ago

    My boyfriend wants this and we've had threesomes before but they tear me up afterwards I get very sad and jealous, it's fun but to me, not worth it if you really love her. Sooner or later one of the two of you won't want that in your relationship anymore. But yeah I'd say it is normal..

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    What ever floats your boat.

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  • Dthdeath
    14 years ago

    Again thank you for the reply, BUT just to say she feels that its wrong for us to do anything more than kissing and wants to kiss.(I feel the same but still have a small want to see her do more.). I am also wondering if it might hurt our relation ship. :) Thank you again.

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  • inuyasha0489
    14 years ago

    i think its great especially for her lol but im telling you now it might be kissing NOW but it will lead to more and there is nothing wrong with that

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  • Dthdeath
    14 years ago

    Well Just to give more info on it

    Yes I love her , With all my heart. I do want to try it but only this once. she thinks it would be cute to see me do that and I agree that I think it would be cute to see her. BUT we both understand that this wont be a permanent thing. Thanks for your input tho. and do you think it will hurt her ? I dont care if it ends up hurting me but I dont want it to hurt her.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    It's not a good idea. I mean some couples can pull it off but it will probably just create problems down the road. I guess to each their own though.

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    It's just making out, who cares.

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  • MBakke
    13 years ago

    I like girls making out...

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    I think you two will have fun with this. It seems like you really care about each other ( i thought it was SO sweet when you said as long as SHE doesnt get hurt in the end) and you have put alot of thought into this. You will both get pleasure out of watching the other so i dont see how it will cause jealousy or hurt the relationship. :)

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  • jagerjaker
    14 years ago

    its gay to make out with a dude, its cool when a chick does it =D double standards are fun

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