Is this a toxic friend? ?

Here's my friend's personality (M not faking it just to get everyone to say She's toxic). It's based on what I know.
Although she's a fun and helpful person, but s.times its hard hold back her attitude.
1. COMPETETIVE : she competes with me in anything. Ex: if I have done s.thing better than her, She feels uneasy. And my goal and hers is to become an architecture, she brings up irrelevant information and skills ( s.th everyone knows) just to show off that she's better than me. Also I've been doing artwork since I was in secondary school, she's just started it, she constantly asks how many pieces of artwork I've done today cause she has done alot of it.

2. SHE MAKES FUN OF ME CONSTANTLY : When I finally reach my limit, who's the
victim? She is..

3. TALK SHIT ABOUT OTHERS : she often has negetive things to say about people. Although s.time it has n.th to do with her.

4. SELF-ABSORBED : she keeps talkin about herself like how bad her day and her life is, how sad when her printer was broken, how much doubt herself in study although she scored 64/75 for writing ( She clearly knows m no better than her, but she still needs attention from a girl with a worse situation). She says stuff like no one's better than her, she's unique.. she often interrupts people' talk so that she can follow the topic and add her own story like there's only her on the planet. But never give a damn effort to listen to anyone's hard problem, she will lost in thought abit and add her own problem in again..then the blah blah blah about herself keeps goin none stop..

Please, Let me know what you guys think about it. It doesnt explain much, but as I am her friend, I m close to her, and its hard to handle her attitude.  

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Comments ( 9 )
  • Keepsake

    Not really a 'toxic' friend. Just a really bitchy and annoying person. You don't have to put up with her if you don't want to.

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  • Ellenna

    That's not a friend, that's just a boring nuisance.

    Good luck with your ambition to become an architecture.

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  • ojimpu

    She's probably depressed and insecure.

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  • ThatOneDudez

    I had a friend just like this in middle school. Dump her. She's no good for you. Even if you "love her like a sister" you do not need that in your life. Find someone better. You might feel bad at first but you feel SO much better about it in the future

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  • wigz

    Have you ever confronted her immediately when she does these rude things? Say something short and blunt like 'it's really rude to talk about people like that'...'you just interrupted me, why did you do that?' etc.

    She doesn't sound like a completely bad person, just a person who is a bit narcisstic. I'm assuming young, probably has no idea how her habits affect others...people like this can change. Find some good ways to respond to her to call her out when she does these things and maybe you can help her change. If not, distance yourself.

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  • Cookiecutter

    dump her you can do better.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Dump her.

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  • HiAGAIN10

    Step away from her for awhile. A few weeks or a month. It'll give you space to figure out what you want. These type of people aren't good to be around 24/7. They'll drain you. Especially if you can't reason with them.

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  • rubish1

    try ignoring her

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