Is this a sex fact for girls?

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I'm so embarrassed to say this but...:/
im a girl, and i have never masterbated. i've never fingered myself. i feel scared to. i know that a girl's cl*t can only take so much when its being rubbed. when my boyfriend wants to turn me on, he'll rub my cl*t until it gets sensative. but i dont cum. when we have sex, he is the only one that cums. never me. we can go for hours without me cumming. and, sex doesnt really feel too good. i dont know if its just me. but he looked it up online and says that girls have to masterbate and explore their body so they can reach their climax during sex. i honestly dont think that's true. he says i have to masterbate more. but, what's the differece? he said my body isnt used to it. we have sex a lot. i dont see a difference besides the fact that its his penis going in and out of me just like my finger would be.

so, my questions are:
1. does sex not feel that great because i dont finger myself?
2. is it true that i have to masterbate to cum during sex?
3. will sex feel better once i finger myself and possible make myself cum from masterbating?

please dont tease me about this :( i just need some help and the truth. i feel scared that i may never cum in my life :'( i know its nothing to be so worried about, but still...please help. thanks.

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  • zii
    14 years ago

    Most women cant get off from penetration.
    Practice (masturbate) getting yourself off by rubbing your clit.
    Once you figure it out, you can rub your clit during sex and get off while having sex.

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  • NymphetsInLove
    14 years ago

    Fingering yourself can be scary. perhaps more than having sex... (I mostly don't like it because I'm afraid of the fingernails and stuff)
    but it certainly isn't necessary to make you cum
    or even necessary to make you feel great.

    and I find that masturbating makes it easier to cum...I usually rely a lot on fantasies and fetishes to make it happen though

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