Is this a normal first kiss?

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Okay, so I have been dating a guy. However it had always been quite casual. Last night was our 4th date, and we still had not been physical. Then, he decided to put his arm around me, and we sat like that a while. As I expected, he finally leaned down and kissed me. However, it did not stop there. He kissed and kissed, thrusting his tongue down my throat. Then he kissed so viciously he hurt my lips by scraping his teeth against them. Then he started touching me, and biting my ears, and kissing my neck. He was shaking violently. Next thing you know, he put my hand on his cock. I got scared, but he said, "trust me, I do not want to have sex with you." I finally left because I was disgusted with him. Am I overreacting, or did he move too fast? Is he a pervert? He says he meant it all in fun, and doesn't expect me to have sex with him, or even be his bf. :( But he wants to continue dating...

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  • cumforfunn
    7 years ago

    Drop him like a bag of cement, if you do go with him again and he does the same, kick/ punch him in his balls

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    The guy sounds like a creepy weirdo. First off its not a given that something has to happen once you hit the 4th date territory, as if thats something to celebrate (its not, its just you share enough in common to warrant going out 4 times).

    It also sounds awkward as hell that he interpreted putting his arm around you as "time to go in for the kill" or at least more then just a kiss. The shaking violently and other weird stuff like biting ears suggest to me he is a weirdo. Not to mention you specifically said you were scared in the post. Of course mayby he is just massively nervous and has no idea what he is doing.

    If he was my age (31) and acted like that he most certainly would be a weirdo. If he is 18 or something he is just a kid who has no idea what he is doing.

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  • oliveyou
    12 years ago

    It is a weird first kiss, yep. He was probably very horny.

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  • Kutieadb
    12 years ago

    He doesn't sound normal, he just sound like a horn dog.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      I guess so...oh, I forgot to mention, he is a virgin. So therefore is not pushing me to have sex.

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      • Kutieadb
        12 years ago

        I just think he was moving too fast, I am glad he isn't pressuring you. If that is the only thing wrong, and it isn't going farther, it's okay... but not that normal.

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