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Okay so I'm a guy and I fantasize about girls. Some of them are sex fantasies but recently a lot of them are girls offering themselves to me and me turning them down. Is this normal?
Turning down an attractive girl is probably an ego booster. It says 'I could have anyone I want, I can be choosy.'
Why are people so damn rude? Maybe it's just me but I thought one if the rules was to be respectful? I hate rude people.
I would suggest you stop "fantasizing" and actually go out and get laid. Trust me, the real thing is so much better than humping your fist.
it's normal and reflects what you are going through right now. throughout your life you will experience different desires based on your spiritual position, mood and focus in your life in that time. You're right now focused on an aspect of your sexuality that involves feeling turned on by the thought of being a desirable alpha male. Just make sure your actions are true to your inner sense of right/wrong, and don't let your morals be shaped too much by this particular desire you are having. In my prediction this too shall pass (though i don't know you, just guessing), and perhaps you will come to experience desires that are more warm and centered on feelings for other people : ) you're just not feeling that right now