Is this a dick move or being nice?
So I met a nice girl on tinder. She is very insecure about herself from what I can tell and is very overweight (or thiccc depending who you ask). We have gone on two dates so far and after lots of small talk on tinder and irl, I decided to come clean. I told her that I wasn't looking for serious relationship right now. She said okay and looked a little dismayed. On our second date we cuddled a lot and I can tell she is very into me sexually. To confirm this, the morning after our second date she texted me and asked if I wanted to cuddle again. I said sure and asked if I should bring a condom and how much clothes I can wear. She said yes and none.
Part of me feels bad because she wanted to be serious with me but that's not what I wanted. I thought she would leave me then but I think shes horny and thinks sleeping with a guy way out of her league could really help her confidence and self esteem. A lot of poeple would call this using girls for sex or "objectifying" women. But if I don't fly a false flag and make it explicitly clear that we are fuck buddies and nothing else, is what I'm doing still wrong? Input please!
It's fine bro your honest and it's her choice | 33 | |
Shallow and kinda taking advantage but not too bad | 9 | |
Awful and misogynistic as hell | 1 | |
Other (comment please!) | 0 |