Is there something wrong with me? or is it the guys i choose?

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Long story short, I'am 19 year old girl, quite pretty, 5"4 with dark hair and eyes.

yesterday and today was the first time I have ever EVER cried because of a guy. Usually I would just brush it off and move on and forget about it.

However, this guy was the last straw. All the guys I saw romantically or was "seeing" treated me like a princess, they wanted to get to know etc but then a few weeks to months afterwards they completely disappear off the face of the earth and act like I didn't exist in the first place!

I don't understand what I do wrong, I'm not clingy or crazy in anyway and Iv asked guy friends if theres anything off putting about me and they couldn't think of anything but positive things to say even though I asked them to be brutally honest.

It really does baffle me and hurts me why men just can't say "I'm not into you anymore" that would've been fine at least there's some closure.

I guess what Im trying to ask is have you girls/guys ever experienced this? How do you deal with it and move on?

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  • Aliceee93
    9 years ago

    The last straw? You're 19. Don't give up hope just because of some dick head guys. Why can't they tell you they're not into you anymore? That's just the way some guys are. You're probably better off without them and tbh they are probably the sort that only wanted one thing anyway.
    There loss :) chin up :) show them what they're missing :)

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  • RearedPyro
    9 years ago

    Treat them just as good as they treat you. If it still doesn't work, smoke weed. Get over it. Learn not to care.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Do you treat them like a prince when they treat you like a princess? That is one thing that irritates me, when a girl wants to be treated like a princess and does not treat her partner like a prince, then complains when the guy getting less out of the relationship moves on.

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  • My02cents
    9 years ago

    Don`t get too serious with a guy after a few weeks or months.
    You have your whole future ahead of you,so enjoy a boyfriend,but don't pressure him in feeling like you are ready for marriage after such a short while.

    I agree with "ItDuz". Don`t be a slave to any man,but treat him right. If it`s meant to be,then it`s meant to be...otherwise - there are lots of other fishes in the sea.

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  • Obblop
    9 years ago

    Enlist in the military, travel to far-off exciting fascinating places, interact with the natives then kill them.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago

    Get in a mood, smoke and drink more, watch eternal sunshine of a spotless mind then get even more depressed.

    As for how to move on, it just happens over time

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