Is there something wrong with me?

my mother hates my guts, she says how embarrassed she is of having me and she says I’m a horrible person, she says I’m the devil and she wasnts to choke me. Today I told my bigger sister (18 yrs) that I forgot the keys in another room, she got mad at me and she said she doesn’t want to see me ever again. She called me a bi** and a cu**. my sister yelled at me in the car saying I’m dead to all of them and I will never be anything in life, my mother sat silent and called me a snake. Sometimes I really feel like beating the sh** out of both of them, and all I do is bottle up my feelings, it’s so unfair, anything I do they suppress me telling me I’ll never be enough. all my family hates me and I suffer from anxiety. I sometimes become suicidal. I tell myself to keep going and that one day I’ll show them what they where mussing. Until then all the di is beat me and make me cry. I tried so many times to make them understand, I always get upset because of what they do to me but my mother only always blame me saying I am waste. I tried confronting them about what they say to me but my mother calls me a thilthy liar and says I’m Satan.

Nevertheless she’s my mother and the only time she’s nice to me is when i haven’t been around her for a while. Her excuse is that I’m a spoiled brat and I deserve nothing. I believe that if my mother didn’t despise me, she just likes me, but doesn’t not love me. meanwhile I hear her sweetly waking my older sister who is a ruthless person. Please I really need someone to understand. I’m a teenager

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  • First things first, hide. Find a place in or around your house that your mom or sister can’t easily get to you. If you feel threatened run there and hide until they give up trying to get you.

    Second, tell someone who will take you seriously. The police can’t do anything unless they have proof, so contacting them will be useless unless you can get the abuse on video. CPS might work better, but they still won’t do anything unless you have obvious bruises, which might be healed by the time they come.

    My adoptive dad used to choke me, slap me, and throw me into walls. I got so scared that one day when he was gone I called a suicide hotline and told them. 3 weeks later CPS and police arrived. But by then my bruises from the last incident were healed and they didn’t really care about the dents in the walls. I begged the police officer to take me away because I was absolutely terrified and was so scared of what would happen when they left. They didn’t do anything though. When they left I begged my father to forgive me and he yelled at me for a bit but thankfully didn’t choke me.
    For a while he didn’t choke me again but eventually when my mom left to go shopping one evening I stupidly pissed him off and he did it again.
    I didn’t tell anyone until I told my therapist because she promised not to tell but she did anyway. The police arrived again. After that he hasn’t choked me since. He’s a elder at a church and I think he was afraid of others finding out and him losing his position, so that’s why he stopped. I’m still scared of him though. So calling the police a few times might work in some situations, but in some situations you might just get beaten for it or the police not take you seriously anymore.
    My father has been abusive enough to make me not trust him anymore, but he’s not like your mom. I think you need to be more careful with her. She might seriously hurt you if she’s finds out you’ve told. So be selective about who you tell and make sure they’ll take action immediately and get you away somewhere safe.

    Third, you are not worthless, b*tch, c*nt, or any of those words they’ve called you. They’re just bullies. They’re the ones who are those words.

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    • nikkiclaire

      Omg. I want to adopt you sweety. I am sooooo sorry you go through all that. I had no idea.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    Not normal at all. Don't take anything they say personally. They're abusing you if they beat you and say those things. They're sick. Tell a school counselor. Heck, call the police if you have to. Move out as soon as you can. There is nothing wrong with you. It's them.

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  • McBean

    Talk to a counselor at school. You may be better off in a foster home.

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  • Sounds like your mother was abusive towards you, and your sister jumped on the bandwagon because that's kind of what she was taught to do.

    The problem in this situation is not you; your family, mainly your mom, has a screw or 3 loose in each of their heads.

    I'd recommend putting some space between yourself and the toxin bleeding from those people. But maybe they'll come around at some point.

    "I tell myself to keep going, and that one day I’ll show them what they were missing." You're right to think that.

    It'd be a pointless shame for you to let them drag you down to the point of ending your own life- a life with potential.

    Your mother's issues and her ridiculous animosity towards you likely have roots in her past, with things she hasn't expressed to you guys.

    I've heard of similar situations. Are you and your older sister from the same father? If not, that could be part of the reason for your mother's behavior, but of course no excuse.

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  • Dustyair

    Find someone to talk to, verbal abuse can be as bad as physical itself.

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  • Idontknowwhattousehere

    Get help right now. Call the police, please. Please call someone. This is very serious, you need to get help as soon as possible. Your mother and sister should not be saying or doing that to you, and the fact you are suicidal and mentally ill is not good. Please call the police

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  • Electra

    Study your lessons be ambitious, get a good job and leave your family, you might keep contact with them later if you want to.

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  • So she’ll be okay with being beaten once she’s a grown up?

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  • If they're abusing you, report them to child/teen protective services in your area. Or ask an adult from school such as a teacher for help.

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  • Jonniebonnie

    I understand, first thing to do, tell a teacher or adult, and police. I am kinda like you i think, i have depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, etc. But i havent gone through anything you have gone through, i heard something about genetic depression, but i believe in God, heaven, hell. And one thing thats stopping me from commiting suicide, is that for probably many chriatians know, if you commit suicide you go to hell, ans one other thing thats stopping me is the things that matter a lot, hope, courage, and confidence. I cant imagine what you must feel like, but be confident in life. Life cant all be misery, there has to be some happiness and fun in life you just have to get to it, you have to fight it, and you gotta have courage. Cause some day you will find that happiness and fun, and some day you will like life.

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    • Suicide doesn’t make you go to hell. Gods not going to punish someone for suffering so much they end their life.

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  • Nickvey

    like it or not mothers with more than one daughter play the favorite game 9 times out of ten. I noticed you didnt mention a father. why is that?

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  • bob7

    9 out of 10 teens hate 1 of their parents , i know teens that are being hit and beaten and u complain for being called names

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    • Whatkatedid

      Name calling is more destructive than being physically abused. This girl needs help.

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      • bob7

        you know how teenagers are they always exaggerate

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    • She did say that they beat her and make her cry though. The abuse is apparently physical, verbal, and mental.

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