Is there sexual tension between us? is it normal ;)

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Okay so this may sound weird to some but I think my cousin & I have a lot of sexual tension going on but idk ....
We're both females & ever since we met, whenever we hang it's like I can't take my eyes off her, literally. I also can't take my hands off her lol Not in an inappropriate way, but we are like always playfully patting each other, sometimes flick each other on the bum too. Its like when ever she touches my arm, stomach or back I get this amazing feeling. We are always laughing together, always have intense gazes. Sometimes we will just look at each other & smile. I've never really properly flirted before but its only with her I feel that I'm borderline flirting. It just comes so easily. One time I put my arm over her shoulder for a pic & she reached up & held my hand. Another I was about to hug her goodbye & hesitated, she said "Ooah the tension" playfully...
Is this a mutual attraction or is it all in my head ? Certainly feels like chemistry to me as we hardly have known each other :p

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  • silkspector
    7 years ago

    Just because your cousins its allowed to felling for her

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thanks I'm just afraid its all me feeling it. I know she's said twice via text that we have a spiritual connection but I know she likes guys. Talks about ex bfs but they were all douches so didn't work out. Sometimes she jokes about getting a guys number or asking is he handsome sort of thing? So makes me feel like the flirtation is all on me and She's just playing/going along u know?..

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      • silkspector
        7 years ago

        Well honesty is the best policy tell her how you fell we all have feelings we cannot control

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          I could never ever risk fam finding out as well as embarrassment :/ ...Awkward............

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago

    Very interesting!! Thanks for your elaborate response!!:)
    Like I said- I feel its more a deep connection, could be romantic... I know I really want to do nice romantic things for her like a guy would because she's special and I feel a lot of love for her which is rare for me.
    Its definitely not a sister feeling.
    I have a sister & a best friend who's like a sister and the feelings are very different as opposed to how I feel towards my cousin. I feel affectionate towards my cousin, I get butterflies sometimes and a nervous/excited feeling.
    I would never act upon it or confess how I feel unless she brought up a topic and it someone lead to me opening up or she just asked me or told me she feels something ...
    I understand what you've written & its very insightful, thanks :)

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  • peterrabbyt69
    7 years ago

    You two should suck each other off and enjoy yourselves.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Fuk off weirdo

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      • itchyTitsMcgee
        6 years ago

        Hey you wanted honesty. I'm with peterrabbyt69. Maybe include alcohol as a back up. Always know your way out. Have fun. You are the one with the crush on your own cousin and you think you have the right to label someone as a weirdo.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago

    I understand all of this but I don't think majority of people would encourage it for the mere ideal of entertainment.
    Sometimes we can't help who we develop feelings for and I thought in life its best to follow ones heart. Tbh, this is more of romantic feelings than sexual because I just love being around her as well being affectionate towards her.
    I would spend every day with her if I could & I think of her all the time.
    She really has an affect on me & this rarely happens with me.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      What if we get older & I still feel the same? Maybe when I get older it could be more a possibility because I'd be seen ad even more mature. She's like my soul mate, whether we are together or not is a different story. Its just I click with her like never before and light up when with her. Her laugh, smile & everything about her is beautiful to me & I just feel so happy with her..

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  • violetkitten96
    7 years ago

    Don't get into this... Incest is wrong no matter who it is :/

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Its not incest! Why does no one know the rule that its okay with first cousins but not the rest? Just saying

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      • itchyTitsMcgee
        6 years ago

        I think you got it backwards. Your first cousins are your parents siblings kids so that is a very close bloodline. Everyone else is cool.

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