Ask Your Question today
If you meet someone and your interested, then you find out they're a virgin, does this make you like them more? Or does this turn you off and cause you to like them less?
| (Female)I like them less for being a virgin | 7 | |
| (Female)I like them more | 22 | |
| (Male) I like them less for being a virgin | 5 | |
| (Male) I like them more | 44 | |
| Other | 1 | |
| Doesn't matter either way to me | 48 |
Female: I like them more.
Not only will they not be typical "players" but they'll greatly appreciate anything that could happen between us.
Also, a dark side in me takes joy in destroying their purity with taboo-less sex, and forever blow his mind, knowing he will always remember me as his first. *shrug*
The thing with non-virgins though, you're pressured into doing it right, with virgins it's not that big of a deal ^^
I'm a guy, and if i find out the chick i'm talking to is a virgin, I would be WAY more into it. There is something sexy about the innocence I guess. Although I have only take 1 virginity, and it was the girl who took mine.
I'm female, it would be a turn-off if a male I was interested in dating/being with long term was a virgin. I prefer experience, confidence and knowing what you like sexually.
If it was a one-night thing, it could be a turn-on....like a nerd fantasy, ya know. Blow his mind and be the best thing that has ever happened to him....EVER....
Sometimes, Id love a total slut, other times, a virgin sounds good. I would feel though that the slut would be better at it, which is better for me.
Its more how they act. Virgins tend to be less confident, less experienced and don't know what they are doing in a relationship. That is annoying when you hook up with someone. Generally you have more luck dating someone who lost there virginity or dated a few times.
However like I believe I said in another comment some people naturally have a confidence to them and those are the type of people who are fun to date. When I date I just don't like people who are not sure of what they are doing and wont even hug you, and people who are just to inexperienced to realize what they are doing. So being a virgin is not a issue however inexperience and lack of confidence is really irritating.
I myself was always pretty confident in this department. I was just kind of strong willed person to begin with though. People always assumed I was very experienced even in my earlier years of dating. Even though I had very little in the beginning.
It doesn't matter to me either way. I think society makes too big a deal of virginity. I don't think it makes a difference, if a man I'm dating has never had sex or is a total man-whore; my philosophy is "once a douchebag, always a douchebag".