Is she a true friend?

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Ok guys this is my 1st story.Well actually it happened 2day.I have a best friend.we've known each other since 7 years now.We had some fights.But sometimes she really drives me crazy.And she cares abo popularity so much that's why she is friends with so many people it's not like i'm jealous or somethin cuz i have some other friends 2.But she overrated this thin.Anyways this year has been really difficult for me cuz i'm gettin ready for university exam it's like for enterin and it's a really big&hard deal.And exam is this sunday.And she hasn't been callin me like 2 months.And her bday was last week and i texted her sayin i wish i could be with u right now but my schedule is full of with my private math lesson.And it lasts 4 hours and she said it's ok hunnie of course well actully my friend is makin a party 4 me so I'll be there.I would be with her if she wanted to come and do smt but i know her she's always with big stuff anyways.And 1st i said what are u gonna do for ur bday?Before i have math lessons.Than 2day she texted me with a real cold attitude with sayin are u excited and such.after a couple message i stopped textin her than she said why are u like this and i said we're not close anymore and told her how i felt.Than all the drama start she said u re not like my bff actually after my bday.And i said what happened i texted u and u text me back with good words.Than she said i don't believe we'll be bff anymore.And i started cryin bcuz i was planin some things for makin up her bday.yesterday i even told my mother abo this.She said some other people send me sooo many good messages that i got suprised to get urs.I said than maybe they are ur best friend and thnk u for doin all this before my exam.And one of her friend was usin drugs but now she says she quited.I always care her more i just know it.And the thin she did 2day made me really sad and i don't know what will happen next cuz in my last message i told her that we won't be nothin more than regular friends!I'm not hangin with my friends this is really important for my life I'm workin my a** off! And she is hangin out with her dear friends doesn't even care abo me and than puttin all the blame on me! So is this normal how she acted? Please help me!

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  • harrypotter
    14 years ago

    Dude, I could hardly interpretate a word you typed in your story. I could not keep up with anything because your grammar and story telling skills were so off key, I was really confused. Best of luck with your issue.. Whatever it is..

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    • Ash4dramaiskillingme
      12 years ago

      Okay I was really mad when I wrote this, I reread it and yeah you kinda right.To my problem if everyone is ever wondering (I don't think so but maybe someone will read this) after that texting we never ever spoke again only when I got accepted she only texted me 'Congrats, on your college' and I texted back 'Thank you.' We finished our friendship! It was a hard but also was the best thing to do.I'm happy with my life and sometimes seeing her online and realising how she changed.I wouldn't like her to be my friend right now.So the lesson is never get sad over someone who doesn't give a fuck about you.It's not like they are gonna save your life.Do not waste any time with so called friends just live your life :)

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  • miranda122
    14 years ago

    i dont think she is a real friend because something like this happen to my friend and its just not cool i think you guys have grown apart alittle bit because of something that is stupid that shes doing being popular isnt all what its craked up to be. she needs to stop trying so hard to be popular and talk to yu bout stuff that might be bothering her or something.

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    • Ash4dramaiskillingme
      12 years ago

      I think she is still with her other friends I told in the story well I'm glad I moved on! ;)

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  • xxmojoxx
    12 years ago

    u lost me at "abo".

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    • Its_Called_Love
      12 years ago

      Yeah, can't you edit posts...?

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  • Knitpicky
    13 years ago

    Sorry to sound a bit harsh with this, I don't mean to be a b!tch about it, but I can't hold back on this one, just giving my honest opinion...

    Um...you're entering into a college exam? You might want to work on your English and grammar skills. I couldn't even finish reading your story because of how this was written!

    Quit the high school drama, for one. It's only a birthday. I've actually forgotten my best friends birthdays and they're fine with it, no ruined friendships. We just make a plan for a later date and party it up.

    Two, texting isn't really a good way to say happy birthday, you could have used the phone to CALL her and tell her happy birthday. At least that's been something I do for my family and friends to show I care. Even mailing her a birthday card, through snail mail.

    And thirdly, what's with the 'you're not my best friend' crap?! That stuff ends in elementary school and by saying that, you make yourself out to sound like a third grader! I'm not saying you can't be-friend someone. You can have good friends, and you can have friends/aquatinces, but seriously?

    I'll let you in on a little secret. You're entering into the world called the Real Life and you'll learn a-friggen-lot about people. There are best friends I had in high school who haven't said a word to me after we graduated, ten years ago. There are best friends who live across the world in Japan and I haven't talked to them in MONTHS...they've had babies, gotten married, but our friendship bond is so strong, it doesn't matter! We're still close, and I'm even considered an aunt to their kids!

    If its really bugging you this much then just move on, the waters under the bridge, time to let go. It's not worth it You'll be meeting a lot of people who will become true friends, and hopefully you'll snap out of this phase.

    I think each of you may have a hand in it. It all comes down to if your friendship lasts through the BS, then yes, she is a keeper, but if she thinks any less of you trying to get your life on track (and your horrid writing skills lol, jk jk), then no, tell her to beat it.

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    • Ash4dramaiskillingme
      12 years ago

      You're kinda harsh! I was really upset and sad when I wrote this so my grammer was not in the perfect shape I agree. whateves I moved on so.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    your friend is a jerk.

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    • Ash4dramaiskillingme
      12 years ago

      THANKS I agree! I'm done with her after this happened we finished our friendship ;)

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  • eal835
    14 years ago

    So confused, can I get a do over? Lol

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  • PeaceSarahLove
    14 years ago

    Seriously, I couldn't keep up with the story either. I got confused often bevause you changed around a lot with people and the setting. Spell check it before you post it hun. Hope your friendship doesn't wane off too fast though!!

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  • RocketZz
    14 years ago

    Your friend is someone with a weak personality and a complex of inferiority. Those usually translate as extreme insecurity, and that is what is going on... Now you're both "adults" and your friend is starting to realize that she can get security in a new way... by seeking attention... Insecure people usually gets over excited when a new person acknowledge something about them, and they tend to hurt those close to them, because they over react... I personally have a problem with insecure people... I avoid them and do not befriend them...What they need are relationships or an insecure friend like them because well... misery loves company... and you don't want to be dragged into it! take care.

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    • Ash4dramaiskillingme
      12 years ago

      Thank you so much for your great advise :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Let her go. She's no friend and you've better things to do.

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    • Ash4dramaiskillingme
      12 years ago

      Thank you I agree and so I did ;)

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