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Is it so much better? I don't want to buy it because i will have to go to a sex shop, i can't buy online because i don't have a credit card. Surely ßpit is atleast almost as good and its natural. I have used spit before but not lube. Please no answers from inexperienced members(pun intended).
As Rose says, saliva evaporates very quickly, so it's not a good lubricant for sex. I also totally agree with the points she makes about foreplay and how penetrative sex shouldn't happen until the woman has had at least one orgasm. Assuming everything is functioning normally for the woman, once she's had an orgasm lubrication should only become an issue if the guy keeps humping away for a prolonged period and she doesn't come again.
If you haven't a clue about how to help a woman have an orgasm, there's lots of good advice from credible websites. If you don't give a shit about the woman you're with being sexually aroused and having an orgasm, then you're an asshole and you should stick to masturbating. In fact, guys with that attitude aren't actually having sex with a woman; they're just masturbating into a living, sentient sex toy.
I'm glad someone with experience has replied . Thats exactly what happens with spit, someone else who obviously has never used it said spit drys up, it doesnt when used for this. But i would like to know if lube feels better, i imagine spit feels.better and i like the dirtiness of using spit specially when the wench uses her own spit.
Saliva is mostly water, so it's not good lube, because it will evaporate quickly, it's also kind of vulgar, and disrespectful to spit on another person. Honestly, I think you should just buy some lube. You can buy lube at a drug store in the same isle as the condoms, and I hope you're using condoms. Go buy some K-Y Jelly, or Astroglide. If you aren't married, or trying to have children you should be using condoms.
Also, if you don't want to use lube then what you really need to is to master the art of foreplay. You honestly shouldn't have sex with a woman until you've already satisfied her once.
Why don't ask your partner what she would prefer?
A man performing (consensual) oral sex on a woman is disrespectful? Since when? They're not literally spitting... the spittle is transferred during oral...
No, cunnilingus is wonderful, I was more referring to when some dude literally spits on a woman's vagina instead of using lube when trying to have intercourse.
Vaginas, as far as I'm aware, naturally get wet when you're turning on the woman they belong to. If a woman has a dry vagina she's not aroused. Don't force yourself upon her during acts she doesn't like.
Lube is an excellent choice for foreplay, but you should communicate with your partner in order to get a good understanding of what arouses her. She should of course do the same in return. Sex is a mutual experience.
I'm not saying you are one of these people who just goes straight in with no teasing/foreplay, but it's one of the golden rules of good sex.
Why’s her vagina dry is the question. Don’t you excite her or don’t you give her enough foreplay?
You don't need to go to a 'sex shop' to buy lube LMAO, you can buy it at the drugstore or your local supermarket. Nothing to be ashamed of, you are an adult, right?