Is public humiliation good revenge?

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So, about five years ago I was dating Brittany. We had only been dating about 4 months when I ended up drunk at a party and...well, I sucked another guys cock and a few people saw. I know, that is so bad for me to cheat like that. But I was drunk. Brittany did not find out about that. However, like 1 month later, same thing occurred but at a different party...and I sucked a different guy off. A guess a few people saw that as well and someone with a phone took a couple pics and sent them to Brittany. She, of course, broke up with me and said she hated me.
Then Brittany began to show those pictures to everyone she knows and sent them to like hundreds of people. I was so embarrassed, completely mortified. Everyone started calling me "blowjob Barry". I still meet people for the first time that have heard about me from Brittany or one of her girl friends.

What do you think about what Brittany has done to me???

Absolutely! Served as deserved! 11
That's rude, but you had it coming. 13
A little over the top for her. 8
Yikes! She is a wicked bitch! 6
I'd get revenge, if I were you. 5
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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    My bigger question is why didn't YOU break up with Brit after you found out you were gay? Why humiliate the poor girl?

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    • bjBarry
      8 years ago

      I am not gay. I am just bi.

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  • wigz
    8 years ago

    You shouldn't have cheated but that's no excuse for her to do what she did. It would be the same answer if you cheated with a woman...it's nobody else's business and sending out pictures and blabbing about it to the world is just juvenile.

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    • bjBarry
      8 years ago

      Her plan worked really well. I was completely embarrassed.

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  • Soapy_Testicles
    8 years ago

    I'm sorry man, this is pretty funny. Whether it's true or not.

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    • bjBarry
      8 years ago

      Yes, ha ha ha, very funny.

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  • anitaweiner
    8 years ago

    thats really awful what you did

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    • bjBarry
      7 years ago

      It is awful that I cheated. I would say that sucking cock is never awful, I quite enjoy it. The question was about what she did, did I deserve it??

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    If you're silly enough to give someone a blowjob where other people can see you and take photo's she's lucky to not be with you any more, especially as it seems you hadn't bothered to tell her you were bi

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    • bjBarry
      8 years ago

      I know, but the other people weren't there when I started blowjob. It is just that the blowjob lasted a long time and I guess my slurping is sort of loud. Giving blowjobs is actually the only bi thing I do. But I did cheat on her. Wait, Are you saying I deserved the total public embarrassment?

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Oh come on ...... you were sucking a cock where it was possible for you to be seen and you kept going when you were seen. You don't think that was publicly humiliating for your girlfriend when she was sent evidence of it?

        You may call yourself bi, but at the time you were sucking another man's cock in public you were GAY.

        As for whether or not you "deserved" it, cause and effect, you idiot, cause and effect.

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        • bjBarry
          8 years ago

          Ok, so I get your message. I totally deserved what she did and I am a jerk for cheating on her.

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          • Ellenna
            8 years ago

            Yep that's it pretty much except I still don't think you're taking responsibility for the WAY in which you cheated; ie not having the brains to suck cock privately, which t resulted in her finding out in the worst possible way.

            What's really important is whether or not you've learned from the experience: so have you and what did you learn?

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            • bjBarry
              8 years ago

              What I learned from my experience is that my craving for sucking cock is very strong....and I very much enjoy it. Not sure why having a cock in my mouth is so satisfying to me. But it definitely is.
              I also learned that I need to have a girlfriend that is completely okay with my cock sucking. That way I don't have to hide it.
              I also learned that "Girl power rules". And that a girl that is mad can put my on my butt and embarrass me repeatedly.

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      • mysistersshadow
        8 years ago

        Of course you didn't deserve it. If she wanted to break up with you thats one thing but thats where it should have ended. I'm sorry you or any one ever has to learn how cruel ppl can be.

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        • Ellenna
          8 years ago

          Oh, so OP giving blowjobs in public isn't cruel to his gf?

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          • mysistersshadow
            8 years ago

            I think it was thoughtless and you can call it cruel if you want I'm not here to argue that what I'm saying is no body benefits from putting more hurt into the world. 2 wrongs don't make any one right.

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        • bjBarry
          8 years ago

          Thank you for being nice to me.

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          • mysistersshadow
            8 years ago

            Its unfortunate that every one isn't kinder to begin with but your welcome.

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            • Ellenna
              8 years ago

              Yeah I agree, pity OP wasn't kind enough to his gf to be honest with her about his sexuality and not flaunt it in public where he could be photographed

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    No revenge is good theres no reasob to put more suffering into the world.

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    • bjBarry
      8 years ago

      Agree with you completely. Britney should have never showed those pictures around. It's because of her people started calling blowjob Barry. Well, OK, I guess what I was doing kind of earned that embarrassing nickname. But what she did is still embarrassing.

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      • mysistersshadow
        8 years ago

        Barry you need to rise above this your better than what they say and those who talk shit don't matter. Haters gonna hate but you don't have to play along. They only have the power over you that you give them. Be who you are and live your life without regrets.

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        • deepdankstickygoo
          8 years ago

          Accept your responsibilities........accept them....responsibilities......accept...

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        • bjBarry
          8 years ago

          Thank you.

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          • Soapy_Testicles
            8 years ago

            Barry, is this story true or not? Because if it is you clearly aren't THAT embarrassed by it, why else make this screen name.

            FYI: I almost created a new screen name along the same lines just to comment on the story.

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            • bjBarry
              8 years ago

              This event is where I got the nickname that I used for my screen name.

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  • deepdankstickygoo
    8 years ago

    I have learned slowly over time that life is mainly about the painal.

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    • Eat.My.Fuck
      8 years ago

      Agreed. It's all just one big shit sandwich of painal in one form or another.

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