Is ok to ask me all you want

Looks like you're simply not wanking enough.
Get busy

I would like to see if i can handle you. I bet i can. Idc if im limp shaking on the bed or floor you better not stop until you fill my ass with your hot cum

You'll need to body-shame her to get your point across. Tell her you would like a woman with a better body - firmer breasts, toner legs, good abs, nicer ass, a face and neck with fewer wrinkles... and of course, a tighter and freshly trimmed pussy. Tell her you want a woman who has better blowjob skills, and loves to give blowjobs (instead of having to ask for it); and is more adventurous in bed (or in other places) - basically an all-round kinky nympho who is a better cook, and has a nicer personality.

TRUST Me... guys may have penis-envy... but girls have SO many other things they are self-conscious about.

Time to please your wife in a different way. Toys? Are you sharing any fantasies with her. Ask what does she wants. Please her the best way possible and in “Agreement”. Try to understand her needs and how she wants them.

I'm not interested in asking anything.