Is ok that my bf is like this

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Whenever we get it on, his hand enters me way too fast that his nail hurts me. I immediately tell him to stop or to be more gentle, but he doesn't listen and keeps on going. I also tried describing the pain like me violently scratching his balls. However he still doesn't listen to me. Additionally, he hates oral sex. I love him very much, but I wish he can be more careful down there

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  • barstool
    6 years ago

    Wrong. He needs to fking listen to you. If he seriously doesn't listen and just keeps going, that's technically digit rape and you should send him home.
    Seriously, who does that??

    The normal thing to do is for him to stop and apologise if he's hurting you. And take that as a hint that he needs to trim his nails. It's not difficult, so if he has a problem with that, there's something wrong with him.
    Not trying to be a dick, but like...come on man.

    Edit: Also, is the oral sex you're referring to him giving or receiving? If giving, the guy is just a selfish lover and needs to be set free. If you love something, after all, do yourself a favour and set it free.

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    • LOLFanProductions
      6 years ago

      He hates giving me oral

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      • barstool
        6 years ago

        Thought so. It's just selfish.
        Sorry to be so down on him, but this all paints a really bad picture of him - at least in the sack. And not stopping when you ask, when it hurts, most people would call that rape.

        Talk to him about it, make sure he understands it's a serious problem (because it IS). But if he doesn't get that, you really should do something about it - for your own sake and self-respect.
        It's not good for your soul to tolerate stuff like this.

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      • lordofopinions
        5 years ago

        Kick him to the curb.

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  • PinkAcid
    6 years ago

    If he does not stop during sex when you are telling him to stop then it is not normal at all. That’s called rape.

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    Sounds like it's time for some Spring Cleaning. Out with the old, in with the new. If after you have Numerous Times asked him and told him about his impatient actions, I would say "KUCK HISS ASS TO THE CURB, FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL LISTEN. Also, try getting him one of those hearing assistant things. When he says "What's this for?" Tell him " It might help since you never seen to hear a fucking thing I say, like asking you to trim your duck in nails". Just a suggestion. Still if nothing, if he won't do that for you, what about when you ask him to get up at night and his turn to feed the baby. If one ever comes along. If he won't listen in that situation, then it seems to me all he cares about is himself. I still vote for kick him the fuck out and find someone to treat you better.

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
    6 years ago

    Yea nah it's the bad enough when a man is so dumb he puts a dry finger in best thing to do its tell him how to do it. I imagine your guy likes inflicting pain since he don't wanna be told how it's done, so find ways to help this happen for him with research or leave him it's obviously some weird fetish he has.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    What he's doing is definitely not okay, and I find it hard to believe that someone so inconsiderate during sex is wonderful in every other way.

    You may love him very much, but I have to wonder how much he cares about you.

    It's time to take a step back and have a good look at the guy and your relationship.

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  • Emokate
    6 years ago

    That's horrible. You should leave him. He doesn't care about you if he does that.

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