Is not normal that my boyfriend stays up parting at neighbours flat?

Is not normal that my boyfriend stays up parting at my neighbours flat all night? She's a woman, around our age and lives in a similar flat to us but alone.

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19% Normal
Based on 26 votes (5 yes)
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  • mysistersshadow

    Sounds like a suspicious situation.

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  • weseestars

    Follow up from poster of original question - this is not normal in a long-term relationship. For three months I allowed him to do this, trusting nothing was going on. Guess what? Now he's dating my neighbour after breaking up with me two weeks ago.

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  • Rusty-Rider

    Please post address and I will check out the party and report back to you.

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  • bittermayonnaise

    Drug fuelled sex party?

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  • Tempest-au

    Tough one. Normal, no. That being said, he may not be doing it for any sexual reason. I used to "party" (as in drink and listen to music etc, not like do massive amounts of illicit drugs) with a female neighbour of mine while my (then) wife slept. We got along well, had similar interests and personalities, and she was a good "buddy".

    It actually stopped after she hit on me one night - I didn't want to cheat on my wife.

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