Is normal that i'm feeling like this?

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I used to depend on friends and my family members. I've been down a lot because of it. Some of them betrayed me as if I had no feelings at all. I was grieving and cried myself to sleep everyday. But now I feel numb. Very numb, indeed. I'm no longer interested in any relationship. I'm afraid to love, to trust or anything that relates with inner feelings because when I did, no one seemed to care. I don't have the guts to love anyone or anything now. I only confide in certain people and I rarely tell my secrets to others. I prefer being alone. I'm just curious whether I grew up (matured) or not normal. I just need your opinions, guys.

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    10 years ago

    I know exactly what you mean. I myself do not like to pour out my feelings to other people. Because i know some people cannot and do not know how to handle such a situation.

    So you got to find atleast one person who has the emotional capacity to handle such emotions, the wisdom and knowledge to give the right advise, someone who loves you unconditionally. Just 1.
    It doesnt even have to be someone who loves you that much for example, social workers in school, therapist, they are there to help. Ive talk to them and trust me with them theres no reason to be afraid. And plus there are some people who truly just want to help, especially in sites like these.

    Dont shut out on everybody just yet. You just gotta be careful on who your opening up to. Thats all. :)

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  • BlackDragon
    10 years ago

    This is normal, I went through/am going through the same thing.
    Its a mistake to close people out, even if you feel like you don't wanna be betrayed again.
    I lost someone dear to me from betrayal. I cried every day and night
    and I felt numb for so long. I'm recently regaining feeling, I think if you had someone to talk to about it, it would help.
    I'm always here for support, if you need it.

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