Is normal that i don't get an erection sometime?

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I'm 18 years old, had quite a few girlfriends and quite recently i met this girl from some concert. We have been dating for a month now. We didnt have sex yet but of course we we make out and "touch" a lot of times, but i just can't get erected. I don't know why, i've never had this problem before. I really like this girl but i've been thinking a lot about this and is it normal?

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59% Normal
Based on 114 votes (67 yes)
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  • kittyd217
    10 years ago

    It is very normal. Our culture has stupid stereotypes that say all guys should have a perma-boner that's ready to go, but this isn't true. I'm a girl, and I myself have come to realize guys are humans too. No matter what age you are, 18, or 25, or 85, other factors are always in play, because your body experiences emotions, physical discomfort, and a large array of different things could be happening for you to not have an erection. But don't worry about that, life is short, and there will be many more erections in your future.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Try her Brother! hahahaha!

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    • awesomeadvice88
      10 years ago

      Asshole pete strikes again!

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  • kgrebo
    10 years ago

    Very, very normal. In fact, the more you're attracted to a girl, the greater the possibility of a "flat tire," at least in the beginning. You have to find a way to relax when you are getting intimate. A couple tokes or 1 glass of wine may do the trick. Also, focus ONLY on her pleasure. Go into it without even expecting to have intercourse. Pleasure her with hands, mouth, etc. There's a good chance that when you're relaxed, boom, it will just happen. Morning sex is great for this very reason. You almost certainly don't have physical ED.

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  • awesomeadvice88
    10 years ago

    There are many reasons it could not be getting erect: problems with blood, erectile dysfunction (possiblly), she might not excite you enough to give you an erection, you might just need to further sexual action with her to get yourself up, she might need to suck you off or you might need tot get yourself excited before hand, have you tried watching porn with her there if she's into it? However if it carries on go to the doctor and ask?
    Not trying to be an ass or anything but have you ever found yourself attracted in any way to a guy? I'm not saying you are gay, but there is a possibility for everyone to be? Hope I helped!

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  • LucidGate
    10 years ago

    Yeah, it's normal. For me personally it happens when I really, really like the girl.

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  • youareaghost
    10 years ago

    doctor

    you have have low blood pressure.

    it can be any number of things.

    having ed at 18 isn't normal unless you drink and do drugs.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    I think that it is fairly normal. However, if it continues to concern you, you should consult a doctor.

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  • Portoz
    10 years ago

    I only have this problem when I'm with that specific girl. It never happened before in any of my relationship.

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  • randypete
    10 years ago

    i think you are GAY

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  • DiamondGirl
    10 years ago

    Not for a guy your age, Dip that thang into some coke. Not the drink. That'll wake that hot dog up! That is what one of my boyfriends did when I was your age. And he was hard all night.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Get her to put your cock in her mouth and see if it hardens up then. If not try sucking a cock. if yours gets hard you will know you are a queer and that men turn your crank.

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    • awesomeadvice88
      10 years ago

      And again!

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  • volvonut84
    10 years ago

    At your age, it sounds as if you may be gay.

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