Is normal that he only wants to see me on weekdays

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I have been talking to guy for almost a month and last Friday we went on our first date and it was awesome, I canceled on him the Friday before we met because I was sick and asked him to meet on Sunday but he said he had paperwork. He claims to be a bit rusty in relationships because he has been single for 3 years because work consumes his time. He seems really busy and we have another date scheduled this Friday, another weekday. He just texted to tell me that he can only do dinner on Friday and has to leave early because he has to prepare for a big interview that will be on next Tuesday. Wtf he has to leave a dinner date early on FRIDAY and the interview is ONLY on Tuesday?? This seems a bit dodgy.

I find it a little strange how his weekends are off limits. If we have just started dating wasn't he supposed to ask to see me last weekend but he says he has a class and the after that he goes home and rests and then on Sunday he will do paperwork. He talks about wanting to strike a balance between work and leisure but I think that maybe he has a girlfriend?

Other than that, he is consistent with responses and often double texts me and that but I find the fact that he didn't ask to see me last weekend a little strange and the fact that he said he'd leave the date early on Friday as well as the fact that. I'm thinking he's trying to back out of this but doesn't wanna be rude about it. Is anyone that busy. IIN?

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Well, you just started seeing this guy, but I wouldn't trust him too much if I were you. Whatever you do don't sleep with him.

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    • CheyChey
      6 years ago

      Well I cancelled the date, I would have had to travel 40 minutes away only to see him for and hour or an hour and a half. So I said I'm working late and can't make it, he didn't seem bothered he just said "fine with me"and wished me "goodluck" so maybe he's so relieved I cancelled and now he's asking me how my day was? This guy's inconsistency just turned me off.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Yeah, he seems kinda weird to say the least. Good on you for cancelling out on him. Unlike dandruff there's no shampoo that fixes flaky people.

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        • redrainbow22
          6 years ago

          Or maybe he was nervous about the date? And thats why he only wanted to make it one hour?

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  • Handyman
    6 years ago

    You are his stand in girl. Drop him.

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    • CheyChey
      6 years ago

      He asked me to be his girlfriend out of the blue but says he can't meet up till Valentine's day. Wtf?

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      • Handyman
        6 years ago

        Exactly, he must find an excuse to be away from his wife/lover.

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  • redrainbow22
    6 years ago

    You just started dating, give it time.

    Maybe he has a good reason for it. Maybe he doesnt want to rush you into the relationship too fast. Or has a long way to travel to the interview.

    Your thinking about this too much. Just go to the date, have fun, and plan another one.

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    • CheyChey
      6 years ago

      I have to go on a bus for 40 minutes for this date and we'll only end up meeting for an hour to an hour and a half. The interview is on Tuesday and tomorrow is Friday and I do not know why he'd have to leave early on a friday night date unless he's planning on seeing someone else after. Also, he is never available on Weekends isn't that really dodgy?

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      • redrainbow22
        6 years ago

        Maybe he's just nervous about dating and wants to take it slow for himself?

        I dont know about the weekend thing. Maybe it's just his relaxing time.

        But yea, I understand where your coming from.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Yeah, that's all hella weird in my book.

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  • S12207
    6 years ago

    It's normal to be busy, but you know when someone is busy vs dodging you. I agree he might have a kid or something.

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    • CheyChey
      6 years ago

      But busy to the point were his weekends are off limits? The past 3 weekends he's been unavailable, if you have decided to date you make time, even if just coffee you put in some effort. All be wants to do is text me all weekend long and all week long, sending me selfies and only being available on Friday nights after work.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    sounds like you want to own his balls, i hope you fail.

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    • CheyChey
      6 years ago

      Lol want his balls? I just want transparency and don't want my time wasted.

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      • Nickvey
        6 years ago

        like i said, ball owner

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