Is my wife being unreasonable

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My wife has kept me in a chastity cage full time for the past 3 years. I’ve had one for ages but we just used to use it for 3 or 4 days at a time. About 4 years ago she asked me to agree to wearing it one week on one week off. That was fine for about a year, at the end of the week wearing it we always had great sex, then 2 or 3 more times that week before being locked up again. During lock up I would service her 2 or 3 times during the week with oral or fingers. About 3 years ago she told me sex when I’m first let out is great with intense orgasms for both of us, but the rest of the week feels like a let down in comparison. She convinced me to wear it every week with let out at the weekends. I reluctantly agreed, Friday nights were great but the rest of the weekend was never as good. Things quickly moved on to letting me out Saturday night and locking me up again Sunday night. We would have sex 2 or 3 times in that time, but she complained it was still only good sex when I had just been released. She decided I was to be let out Saturday nights then locked again after I made love to her that same night. We had always agreed to things in the past all be it reluctantly from me sometimes, but this time she told me it was what would happen and got nasty when I said I didn’t want that. It happened that weekend and ever since. I still service her regularly whenever she wants, usually 4 or 5 times a week these days. I’ve been told if I don’t I will loose my weekly let out, although that’s never happened, but then I’ve never refused her. She has now decided from Easter onwards I am to be reduced to once a fortnight, I’ve told her that’s unacceptable but she says it’s not my decision to make. She told me as my key holder she owns my dick and balls and will do what she wants with them. She said technically I am a girl now as I no longer have a dick and balls to call my own and if I’m not careful she will start referring to me in female terms particularly when we are in public. I think she is being unreasonable but she says it’s just to make sure we both get the best out of our orgasms.

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CDmale4fem

3 years ago

There is NO FUCKING WAY IN HELL I WOULD LET ANOTHER PERSON HAVE THAT MUCH CONTROL OVER ME. I would say next chance you get dig thru her purse and find your balls and get them back, then tell her if thats what she wants- then go find herself another pussy boy to take the beating. I understand role play but theres a point thats to far.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Easier said than done. This whole thing has been a long gradual process. We’ve been married over 20 years, about 7 years ago she gets the idea of the chastity cage. The first one she bought me as a Christmas present, to be fair it wasn’t a bad fit for an estimated size, but I wasn’t over impressed and said it seemed more like a present for her as she was the one that got the benefit from me wearing it. Her response was it was no different from her going out in tiny skimpy underwear I bought for her or wearing the sexy night wear I often bought her for Christmas, birthday etc. Anyway we just played about with it occasionally and that was fine, then she gets me all in the mood one Saturday afternoon and wants me to wear it. I gave her a couple of orgasms and she said she was going to shower and get dressed. I’m like whats going on what about me. She tells me I get mine tonight it will intensify my orgasm if I have to wait. I tell her I need to take it off to pee she says no you can sit and pee. I’m getting all worked up but she just showers dresses and goes off, so I have to sit to pee. This happened a few more times but I accepted it as she was always good to her word. Then one day she says as I sit to pee like a girl when I’m wearing it I should wear knickers with it. I say no way but she laughs and says if you want to be let out tonight you’ll wear what I want. From then on it was always knickers when I had it on. From there on things increased bit by bit, now I feel trapped, I do love her but what started as a game has become a lifestyle I’m not really wanting
  
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KholatKhult

3 years ago

AHHHHHHHH

SHUT THE FUCK UP

AHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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- litelander8
  
  3 years ago
  
  Just be happy your member can breath normally.
  
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megadriver

3 years ago

Don't you post this every few weeks?! Random muppet that had his wife put a chastity cage on his gentleman's sausage and he asks if it's normal. Keeping you locked up for longer and longer periods of time...

For the 10000th time, it's not normal! Or if you are a troll, try harder. The whole chastity thing has been done way too much. Still a bit more original than the cuck fantasy a lot of trolls on here have!

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leggs91200

3 years ago

Now THIS is the kind of weirdness we have come to expect at IIN.

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Kermitt

3 years ago

I think it's you that's being unreasonable. I presume you love her and that you want to her to be happy and totally satisfied. Orgasms should be spectacular and if it's the only way you can give her amazing orgasms, you should be more than willing to make simple sacrifices

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  But what about her obligation to keep me sexually satisfied?
  
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  - Kermitt
    
    3 years ago
    
    If she gives the amazing orgasms you say she does, she's satisfying you and she obviously gives you everything else you need as you haven't complained about anything else. It seems that you want sex far too much. She is making it special
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      I enjoy the sex I have, I enjoy satisfying her as well, but whenever I give her an orgasm afterwards I’m left feeling frustrated that I didn’t get to cum too. I console myself by thinking about my next time is only however many days away. I’ve often told her I think after about 4 days my body is ready and my orgasms would be as good as they are after a week. Her excuse is once we start reducing the number of days to less than a week it will interfere with routine what with 7 being a prime number. Why should she get to have orgasms as often and as many times as she wants but I’m going to be limited to one every 14 days. How is that her being reasonable?
      
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      - Kermitt
        
        3 years ago
        
        If my partner asked me to do what your wife asks of you, I'd be more than willing. You said that after a week when she releases you, you have an amazing orgasm. Don't you realise she doing so you have an amazing orgasm
        
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        3 years ago
        
        But if she reduced the time to twice a week or even 3 times a fortnight I could have even more amazing orgasms. As it is she wants to halve the number of amazing orgasms I have so how is that benefiting me. She still has as many and as often as she wants at the threat of me not getting my next one if I refuse her even once to give her what she wants. Why should we not both be limited to one a fortnight, if she feels that’s enough for me why is it not enough for her?
        
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litelander8

3 years ago

Jesus. I bet y’all look like normal people.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  We are normal people
  
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  - litelander8
    
    3 years ago
    
    Your poll says otherwise.
    
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Mammal-lover

3 years ago

Prove it. How often do you remove the cage? Is it full, spotted, plastic. Silicon metal? Internal or external security. Prove it bitch. I dare ya.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Not sure what you are expecting when you say prove it. I’m certainly not going to send a picture. It’s stainless steel and 80 mm in length, I wear it with a 45mm base ring and it’s locked with a small but secure padlock. My wife has taken to handcuffing me to the shower screen 3 times a week while she removes the device. She then cleans it and washes my/her Penis. Everything is then dried before she replaces it. When that is done I have to give her at least one orgasm as a reward. Hope this helps with whatever proof you wanted
  
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  - donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    
    3 years ago
    
    oh gross its metric
    
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  - Mammal-lover
    
    3 years ago
    
    Far more educated on chasity etiquette than I expected
    
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  - litelander8
    
    3 years ago
    
    Does the metal clank and jingle when you move around?
    
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    - donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
      
      3 years ago
      
      i hope it makes that jailcell door bein slammed shut sound when it gets locked up
      
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      3 years ago
      
      No it is all quite secure in my knickers thank you
      
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Kermitt

3 years ago

Two weeks is a short time. Women gave always been in charge right from the time of Adam and Eve

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  It’s not a short time to me and I have tried to make that clear to her. So she has now decided she will refer to me as her wife from now on and will call me Susan. She claims as my dick and balls now belong to her then I should consider myself a girl so I need a girls name. When I objected she just laughed and told me I have to sit to pee, if I was a man I would be able to stand.
  
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Kermitt

3 years ago

She clearly wants you experience the best orgasms and although you may feel deprived for a short period of time,when you do orgasm it's sensational.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  How can you call 2 weeks a short period of time? Plus why is it for her to make all the decisions all the time?
  
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Kermitt

3 years ago

I think you're incredibly lucky, I'd like to treated the way you are

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  3 years ago
  
  Why?
  
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SmokeEverything

3 years ago

Does she smack you with a greasy spatula for breakfast?

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- litelander8
  
  3 years ago
  
  I’m sure it depends on what’s cookin.
  
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