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She has had intercourse since she was like 17 while on college and she´s always been very keen about sex. She even let´s me film her during sex etc.
| is she a whore? | 50 | |
| is she a little bit slut? | 47 | |
| is she normal? | 26 | |
| is she below average? | 1 | |
| it´s nothing | 38 |
Not unless she accepted money the sex or fucked them all while married to you.
Does it matter though? if you love her and if she treats you well, all should be fine?
I'd guess she's a pretty good lover because of her escapades. You should thank your lucky stars she wasn't some up tight virgin, terrified of sex, when you married her. I think you are a very fortunate man and shouldn't make a big deal of the previous relationships, which helped create the woman I assume you fell in love with.
I gotta say, I like your point of view on this one.
A lot of males (well, here in general) will say that said number of partners makes a woman a whore or a slut of easy, what have you, but never have any of my partners complained. In fact, afterwards, they tend to admit having reservations about my having as much experience as I do but they will say that having a partner who is more experienced and has a higher comfort level with sex seems to be the preferable method. Especially when I am with someone who is a virgin or has had less than 5 partners.
I'm sure it depends on the woman and all but to me, if I were a dude and I were looking to have a partner to have a good time with, I would definitely be ok with a woman who has sexual experience and knowledge of how to have fun and stay safe.
I've had numerous sexual partners all my life, must be over 100 by now, yes some will say I'm a slut and a whore but who cares. I enjoy a good cock so I'd say if she liked it why not.
There is such a thing as a prostitute, and there is such a thing as a sexually promiscuous woman.
Should they be referred to as whores and sluts? Probably not in most circumstances. Does that mean they don't exist? No.
Simply does not exist. It does not matter how or why someone has intercourse. There is no such thing. It is merely a word, that jealous humans created to justify anger towards others.
Sex is the most natural and basic function of any human being...animals... spiders...
The number of partners, whatever it may be...will never matter. Everyone should be getting it, it is just that not everyone can.
don't worry about it unless she got AIDS or if she cheats on you.. Otherwise don't ever bring it up to you. Be happy she told you about it.
How old is she now?
if she had that many at once... yes
If she had that many in a day ....yes
if she had that many in a week....yes
if she had that many in a month... yes
if she had that many in a year... a little
if she had that many in 5 or more years ... no
I don't see why people thumbed you down. I think yours is a reasonable response.
Lol thanx
the person above who said there is no such thing as one got thumbs up maybe because people dont want to feel bad about themselves if they slept around a lot.
But the thing is there is such thing as one its a person who sleeps around a lot... *shrugs*
In my school there were a lot of sluts...like one girl I knew had 2 guys she was sleeping with who didnt know about each other... another girl I knew had sex 3 times one weekend with 3 seperate people after 3 seperate dates...and didnt were underwear to school(would not have cared if it wasnt for the fact in the locker room she sat her naked ass on the benches)lol
I can't be bothered reading every post in detail, but it doesn't seem anyone has asked OP how many sexual partners he had before his current relationship? Oh sorry, there's no such thing as a male slut or whore is there, they're called studs and admired ......
The double standard lives on and on and on ......
I ticked Yes to Whore, because it's a meaningless term, as is slut: usually it just means someone who's getting or has had more and/or better sex than the person doing the labelling - says everything about the labeller and nothing about the labelled.
Posted by a slut whore and proud of it ..........
13... that's it? Not a big deal. How many women have you been with? Be honest, asshole.
Why the aggressiveness? No need to insult unless you feel ur a slut because you've had more, then I'd understand.
One shouldn't judge anyone else... especially the person they marry, for things they did before they met. I mean, come on, how shallow can a person be to focus on something so insignificant?
If one judges one's spouse, AFTER the commencement of matrimony, then one is just an ASSHOLE. When people share their lives with each other, making the committement Everyday, then passing judgement on the person about what they did before the 2 people met/ married is the beginning of a self-destruct mode. Morales have less to do with it - it's more about being fair and loving - since one accepted the marriage.
Buy, hey, hypocrites need reasons to judge... I guess.
OMG lol. Such a double standard. She isn't a slut because she enjoys sex and is honest with u. I like a woman that know what she's doing, and that comes with practice, safe practice. As long as she's clean and it's not like throwing a hotdog down a hallway, I wouldn't worry about it.
It depends on her age.. and as you love her, it shouldn't matter.
How many partners a year do you deem she should have?
Most of them happened at a young age (late adolescence/ early twenties) and it was downhill from there, lasting years with her last BF so I´d say about 10 on those years and the last three on her twenties
Sounds like she may have had either a string of not so successful relationships or perhaps she was just having a bit of fun, both of which are relatively normal.
I guess context might change that, if all of the sexual partners were one night stands while she was at parties, then it would change things. 14 partners over 10 years, perhaps she just had one partner every 7-9 months and moved on quickly.
Personally, I suggest you look to the future rather than the past. Judge her by how she acts now, not how she potentially was and if it really bothers you, speak to her.
I think its alright.. since it was 'before you' now that she is with you she has found what she was looking for in those 13 others.. I wouldn't let it lay heavy on ur mind we all have a past.
The way I see it if you're over 10 partners by say 21. You're a bit ..promiscuous..
You're in the devil's playground.
Was she "on" the roof of a Frat house getting double teamed by a couple of Frat boys?