Is my v#$%& too tight? sex hurts

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Okay, so I'm a little embarrassed but let's just say out of 4 partners, only 2 were anatomically executed without screams of pain and me cutting it short because it just didn't fit in. I was a virgin back in January when i lost it to my ex, who lived up to the "big asian, small dick" stereotype. We did it A LOT and it never hurt. But the next guy, he literally could not fit it in and it hurt sooooo bad. Next guy, only if he was very very hard and I was on top and guided it in. Next guy was just like the 2nd, he was the only truly "big" one, and it hurt so bad I actually cried. Mind you, I was still sore from guy #3 2 days prior, but this just isn't right. I know being tight is a "good" thing, but this is just insane. No, I don't have any std's or infections, its a stuctural problem, i'm guessing. I've tried lube, and even umm "stretching" myself, but it still hurts to even think about it so much so that I don't even WANT to have sex anymore. Is this normal? (i doubt it) and what can i do? Will I have to settle for teeny tiny dicks for forever? I hate dissappointing the guys, I feel like crap, and I HURT. BTW, oops, I forgot to say I'm a 19 year old GIRL and I only have "vaginal" intercourse, no anal. HELP please. And no crude comments or calling me a whore. I waited 19 years and I always use protection.

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Maybe the more u do it the less it will hurt

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  • red678
    13 years ago

    just tell them to lick ur pussy first ;)

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  • (:sweet:)
    13 years ago

    Get really wet an use lube and be very relaxed

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  • zombie_queen_86
    13 years ago

    UHM.... I PERSONALLY THINK U. NEED TO BE STIMULATED BEFORE THEY GO INSIDE OF U. CUZ IF UR JUST MAKIN OUT AND THERE NOT MANUALLY STIMULATING THEN THERE'S UR PROBLEM....

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  • pandabear1209
    13 years ago

    Your a guys dream ! Lol he will never fear of being too small

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  • analsexonly
    6 years ago

    Try anal instead. Seriously. It's not uncommon for women who find vaginal painful to enjoy anal instead.

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  • captblood44
    8 years ago

    i don't get it?!? if you have a teeny tiny pussy, then what's the problem with a teeny, tiny penis? seems like the two go together. teeny tiny penises need pussy too.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    well your smarter then the other girls how about 5 inches not to thick not to skinny. why did you cry

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    love hurts..

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  • mrclean11
    12 years ago

    It's basic physiology. Just take your time and be patient. Each person's body is different. Start out small and gradually work your way up and you will train yourself to take it. Your vagina will stretch and gradually get there. Get yourself some small dildos or vibrators and get some of increasingly larger size. Start slowly from small increasing the size. Use a lot of lube. Also, try soaking them in boiling water as that heat sensation will drive you crazy (of course make sure you don't hurt yourself), but if you leave a dildo or vibrator in boiling water for about 5 to 10 minutes it will be hot enough but not too hot to hurt you. I probmise, it will drie you crazy and help you teach your body to take something larger. Consider it like working out but a lot more fun, start out small and work you way up. You will be fine.

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    This is a seriously under appreciated and un educated part of sex, but you need to be turned on first! You need to be all hot and heavy and feel like you'd melt if you didn't have it :P I'm 19 to, and I have a problem with large d**** you need foreplay.

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  • ohyeahh123
    12 years ago

    Omg you sound perfect haha. How 6 inches ? Lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    awwww
    i feel bad for u!!!
    :)

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