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i am a 22 year old female and i feel my taste in sex is really different, i get turned on by getting bitten or getting poured candle wax on my private parts or anything that causes pain ( a sweet one though) i only get pleasure if i am getting certain type of physical pain on my body. also i love getting spitted inside my mouth by my boyfriend. is this normal?
No not normal but why worry about it if you both enjoy it. We all have differing ways of enjoying our sex and if you are not harming anyone else then yes go for it.
My pagan friend often tells me "And ye harm none, do as ye will". Your desires are actually pretty tame compared to many I've heard of. I had a platonic friend once who got me to pour the candle wax on her during a strip poker session when I was about your age and none of us thought anything of it. It was just her thing, no big deal. You do need to put limits on your sexual activities, though. My limits are: no illegal activities, no dangerous activities, no unhygenic activities. Beyond these things, I'm willing to try anything and so should you. Embrace your sexual desires and enjoy yourself. No big deal.
Some women are like that..I dated one for awhile that liked..Demanded me to pull and yank the back of her hair, so her head would snap back. And I mean, hard! Even in public, I'd be playing with her hair at a bar or restaurant, and she'd tell me "Do it!", and I would. Even during sex, she couldn't get off until I was plowing into her, and yanking her hair back so her head would snap. Got weird after awhile..I started feeling like, hey, are you orgasming b/c of what I'm doing to you down below, or, b/c I'm yanking your hair and snapping your head back like a mouse trap?
I did push off the woman who was into choking..No, thanks..Used my right arm and dumped her right off the bed..Eff that.
It's not really normal compared to traditional sex, but if you and your partner consent and both enjoy it, you've got nothing to worry about. This is coming from a chick who's got a REALLY weird thing for male booty.
my friend told me she cant get off unless she feels the burn of a cock up her ass. and she is so sweet and innocent looking. no one would ever guess she like to mix pain and pleasure. id myself would like to paddle her ass with her bent over my lap and my dick inserted into her vagina. i did my ex wife this way one time. it was kinky good for me. and she was more wet than usual
I guess it isn't "normal" as in most people would do it, just like my piss fetish isn't "normal" either but it is not "wrong" or "harmful" so relax and enjoy.
When I was younger I dated a girl who like pouring hot wax on her nipples and clit. She would want me to fuck her right after and I could tell it was painful for her but she insisted she liked it. She also used ask me to choke her and pull her hair.
I left when she kept escalating the levels of pain as I got uncomfortable with it. My piint is some women are into this kind of stuff.
It's fun for a while but my ex got carried away with it and I suspect many do as they try to reach a new high or deeper level of depravity.
The tipping point for me was when she wanted me to bite her clit really hard. I just couldn't do it.