Is my story normal?

Okay. I have this ex. And he was really sweet to me at first..We went out for awhile, then we would break up..go back out..break up..and so forth. He doesn't treat me right and I for some reason can't stop liking him. I keep taking him back when I know it's not doing either of us any good. All he wants is to get in my pants. And I know that, yet I take him back anyways. Is it normal to feel this way about someone, even when you know it's not right? Please, help me out here.

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  • NormalAnonIsNormal

    A lot of people feel the way you do, but don't let him use you like this. Be strong and say no, you'll feel much better later on. Trust me.

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  • ImMe

    this same thing happened to me with the first man i ever had sex with and the thing that finally clicked for me was when Irealized I didnt actually like him at all in fact I couldnt stand him and still cant to this day... it was the idea of how i wanted him to treat me that I was in love with... once you realize this you will be free of the power he holds over you and you can move on and find a man that you deserve and he will be sorry when he sees what a good girl he treated like shit.

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  • thebuddah

    Btw the persons name is "myboyfriendsbitch" sounds to me like your mans a keeper. Ya OP don't take that kinda advice please!!!

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  • thebuddah

    ^^ if you take that advice you'll keep getting played. Listen to everyone else...he's using you sweetie and you need to let it go regardless of how much he begs. It will never change or get better because you already aloud it to happen a hundred times

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Ummm... did she say that he was always doing the breaking up? No! Yall are probably young and don't realize how much you really care about each other (maybe). Guys sometimes don't know how to act when they want to be with someone forever - sometimes they just have problems showing their true emotions. Is it true that he was sweet to you the first time you went out and then after each reunion it was never satisfying as the first time? And all any guy wants is to get in a girl's pants, but sometimes they want to get in one girl's pants for the rest of their life - it's human nature. All my friends thought my bf was an asshole because we had a similar relationship. And while he is an asshole, he is an asshole that has never wanted anyone more than me. I would always complain that he didn't call me when he said he would and stuff like that and he recently told me he just didn't know what he wanted out of our relationship back then (young and stupid). Deep down he is really sweet but he is not good at showing it. If your intuition tells you yall were meant to be together then keep trying, but don't let him use you. And yes, it can feel like it sometimes, but only you know what's right for you. I wish people would quit jumping to conclusions and generalizing all guys as assholes. I think they are just harder to understand than women.

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  • missconquer

    I feel that way with my friend. We fight all the time and stop being friends, but within 2 weeks, we are friends again!

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  • 1985

    Yes it's normal because nobody is perfect. But no, it's not healthy because you got to move on. I think you can do better than that :)

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  • the dudes a sex addict
    break up and stay that way

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  • Ike

    on again off again relationships suck, i know from experience. this guy sounds like a real douche bag. whats he do make you feel bad for him each time or something? you have to avoid him or he will guilt you back in. find a different guy who respects you.(^_^)

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  • YesIamaretard

    you are his pissing can...

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  • leahquestions

    you can choose to keep taking him back and keep getting stepped on and being miserable half the time or move on. he can't commit find someone who will---the choice is yours good luck

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  • xoxoxoamiwierdoxoxox

    umm it sounds like this guy is using you. He's being fake. and it sounds to me like you like the person he pretends to be. when he stops pretending for a sec, u break up. when he puts the show back on, u get back together. i dont wanna sound harsh but it sounds to me like u gotta get over it and move on cuz a lot of guys will pretend anything to get sex. he sounds like one of them.

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  • bowira

    this EXACT SAME THING HAPPENED TO MY FRIEND, i know u like him but girl, stay away from that trouble maker if he only likes u for "whats in ur pants" then he's not loyal and he doesnt deserve u just brake up with him and find another guy

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  • nothing2

    usually people like that break up with you for somebody else and then get back with you when that does'nt work out. its that behind the scenes thing that you don't see. when you know that it's different. i don't mean to be horrible.... i really don't. but i wish somebody would have spelled that out to me.

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