Is my stepdad trying to touch me?

My mom and dad separated when I was 1, they fully divorced about 2 years ago. My mom got remarried July 13, 2015. My stepdad seemed very nice and he seemed like a guy that would be discussed by things like that, but he's always slapping my upper thigh and my butt, he something (I hope accidentally ) touches my private area, but is he trying to touch me like that or not?

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Comments ( 16 )
  • Sounds like he's trying to touch you inappropriately. Be wary of him as this can quickly escalate.

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  • Ellenna

    Can you tell him you don't want him to do that any more? If he laughs it off or denies it, talk to your mother: if it's innocent and he respects you he'll listen and act accordingly, whereas denial or minimisation usually indicates he is up to something or wants to be

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  • ShereKhan

    put a knife in your pocket and next time he touches your vagina grab his hand, bring out the knife and cut one of his fingers off. i'd go for the middle finger so you can joke that he's never going to get married again

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  • CreamPuffs

    Then tell him to cut it out, obviously. Ellenna has the right idea.

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  • sebastian2013

    He is just a caring and supportive father who wants you to be happy and successful. You are simply misinterpreting his being physically affectionate as harassment.

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    • Ellenna

      Physical affection doesn't have to include inappropriate parts of the body: OP is right to feel uneasy

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  • rogerc

    if he wants to touch you let him you seem ok with it and are not protesting why not go for it, try wearing a short skirt and no knickers so he can get to the meaty bits

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  • mysistersshadow

    How old are you?

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  • fluffy1uv

    Please at least tell your mom

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  • xfg24

    Nothing wrong with that. Be glad he is showing affection.

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  • MR.mr

    really hard to say, maybe that's just behavior that he was raised around so he thinks there's nothing wrong BUT it is suggestive of inappropriate things so be careful .

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  • mrbrownfinger2

    Is your mom having sex with him? If not, it's your duty to give it to him.

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  • deerhunter123

    yes and you should et him touch you and you should seduce him

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  • Yhertay

    I'd spend a lot of time thinking carefully about this before you say anything. It's entirely possible this is completely innocent and by talking to your mother you risk destroying her relationship for no good reason.

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    • rogerc

      It is not innocent I would never touch my daughters bottom

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      • chickfromdownunder

        I agree, that is creepy.

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